Girl Talk on Sidechat | would this be a valid break up ? (long read): my bf and i have been dating for about a month (known each other 6 weeks ?) and we’re about to spend spring break together and i’m meeting his parents. he told me his mother said she won a raffle where (1/?)

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would this be a valid break up ? (long read): my bf and i have been dating for about a month (known each other 6 weeks ?) and we’re about to spend spring break together and i’m meeting his parents. he told me his mother said she won a raffle where (1/?)

Anonymous 9w

I think it’s valid. You set a clear boundary of what you’re not ok with and if he crosses it, it’s probably a bad sign for him continuing to cross them

Anonymous 9w

yes he's showing you VERY early on that he will not respect ur boundaries and try his hardest to push u to ur limit with them. listen to ur gut

Anonymous 9w

she gets a mariachi band at her house to serenade her and he asked (she asked) if i would be okay with that or if i would enjoy it. i said no i told him that i don’t like any sort of public or private things like that. like when people get the birthday song and dance at restaurants even if it’s not for me i get second hand embarrassment and have to leave i really don’t like it (2/?)

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OP 9w

he joked about “well what if i do it anyway what would you do” and i said i would break up with him and he was laughing and i said seriously don’t i’m not kidding it would make me uncomfortable and he said okay i wont im sorry”. i fear he’s gonna do it anyway. i get that his mother won this raffle thing (weird thing to win) but if she wants to do it while we’re there i dont want to be present for that part bc it makes me uncomfortable (3/4)

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OP 9w

if he does do it and like ambush me in front of his family would that be a valid reason to break up ? regardless of all the details it’s very much “i said don’t do this because it makes me uncomfortable and you did it anyway”. idk im over thinking it but he seemed to laugh too much when i said no and i fear hes gonna do it anyway and im gonna cry and break up with him and make him drive me 6 hours back home (4/4)