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found out the guy I’ve been seeing lied about when he broke up with his ex on our first date.They broke up not long before me and him started going on dates (3 year rls).originally said he broke up with her months prior. Do you think this is a big deal?
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Anonymous 2w

I told him I’m not comfortable being in a relationship with someone who just got out of a long term relationship but he keeps saying he’s ready and “was over that relationship before it ended”

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Anonymous 2w

I would say cut it off men usually say that then still want their ex back or still think about later

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Anonymous 2w

Men also will tell small lies at the beginning and see how you react to small lies and then lie about bigger stuff later on

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Anonymous 2w

tell him you’re taking a break. if he really likes you he’ll wait. if he starts dating other people then he was with you for the relationship not for you anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’ve been thinking about this. It’s way too fresh and new. And he’s acting like he’s obsessed with me which is sussing me out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yup facts I dealt with this with my ex

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