Girl Talk on Sidechat | idk if im asexual, bisexual, straight or smth else. sex is cool but i don't hunt for it. i kinda just go along with it in relationships. i dissociate when doing it. penises/coochie look weird. i feel like im performing :/ (not on birth ctrl) ADVICE??

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idk if im asexual, bisexual, straight or smth else. sex is cool but i don't hunt for it. i kinda just go along with it in relationships. i dissociate when doing it. penises/coochie look weird. i feel like im performing :/ (not on birth ctrl) ADVICE??

Anonymous 5w

im literally in the same exact boat wow

Anonymous 5w

I mean you’re whatever you wanna be tbh

Anonymous 5w

you don’t need to label yourself! labels are helpful for some people but not for others. abt the sex thing though maybe you should talk to your partners abt how you feel and try to focus more on what you like?

Anonymous 4w

Could you perhaps have some trauma around sex? Thats what I deal with and turns out there’s a bunch of walls put up bc of trauma. Disassociation is a trauma response or a response to overstimulation

Anonymous

#2 5w

i dont wanna label myself, i dont see the point , i just feel a little broken yknow :/ like is this normal? why dont i have what everyone else seems to have? hope that makes sense lol

Anonymous

#1 5w

twin 🥀🥀

Anonymous

#3 5w

like is it normal to feel repulsed by genitalia? is it normal to dissociate to not overthink and get nauseous during sex? are these normal thoughts im not trying to put a label on my sexuality, i just want to know if my feelings are abnormal 😭😭💔

Anonymous

OP 5w

Nothing is normal but nothing is abnormal there’s not a right or a wrong when it comes to you and sex or sexuality or whatever the hell it is

Anonymous

#3 4w

i just feel like sx is soo overrated its so boring and likenot interesting 💔

Anonymous

#1 4w

literally. i genuinely dont get the obsession