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Been abstained for 3 months as someone who is aiming for a year of abstinence as a hyper sexual person
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Anonymous 7w

Can i ask why you want to abstain for a year? Proud of you so far!

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Anonymous 7w

Girl happy for you- but also like in the back of my mind I’m just asking, what is so hard abt not having sex like. That’s just me tho, I don’t like ppl enough to even feel be put in that situation or be turned on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I feel that it’s just been too much and I wounded up in a cycle that I didn’t feel right by. Like it’s nothing wrong with the act but personally for me to keep having smex with people that I didn’t share a actual connection with and be in a real relationship was just a waste to me and as time went on I just would feel worse and worse, so once I was able to finally cut ties and my last fling was unexpectedly removed frm my life I took it as a sign to actually hold to it this time, no backtracks.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

And thank you

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