
I needed to see this today totally different scenario but me and my bsf both avoidants are in a situation where they hurt me and they just didn’t seem to understand and ghosted me after I told them how I felt they replied I just went silent bc I needed time to really think about what they said which I could’ve communicated !! So today I’m actually going to make time to communicate how I feel instead of pushing it as side bc I want to grow out of my horrible fuck ass habits