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Girl Talk 1w
romantic attraction ≠ sexual attraction and i’m tired pretending like it does 😭
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Anonymous 1w

and NO, my post has NOTHING to do with homophobia or anything of the sort

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Anonymous 1w

this. i’ve been romantically attracted to people but not sexually.

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Anonymous 1w

I didn’t get this till this morning

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Anonymous 1w

Also the third attraction, where I’m attracted to someone in a non romantic and a non sexual way. Idk what it is but there’s some people I see and I’m super attracted to them but in a romantic or sexual way

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Anonymous 1w

been saying this since TWENTY NINE-TEEN

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

wait wdym

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

i identify as heteromantic bisexual. i’ve been accused of my romantic orientation being only based on internalized homophobia or misogyny, which isn’t the case. i just haven’t found a woman i’m interested in dating or pursing romantic relationships with, but i do know of a few woman that i’ve definitely been physically attracted to

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

like a friend crush?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Maybe? The attraction definitely goes deeper than just friends but definitely not romantic or sexual, idk it’s hard to explain

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

alterous attraction?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Let me go look that up real quick

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

YESSS THATS IT

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Like adoration for your friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Not even just my friends, I could see some random person on the street and NEED to become close with them, cause I also don’t feel this way for most of my friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Fr I be blushing kicking my feet and giggling thinking of my friends not in a romantic way but I still get butterflies and 💕✨🫶🙏😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

Yessss

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Good luck babe!

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