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girls i’m so conflicted. my whole life i have never wanted to have kids in the future. like very adamantly against it. but now i have a bf and the thought of having kids with him in the future isn’t so bad. wtf?? is it just my stupid hormones taking over?
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Anonymous 11w

it’s super natural to have that feeling esp when you’re with someone you love, so don’t beat yourself up over it <3 whenever i get that feeling tho i always imagine what would happen if something happened to my partner/we broke up. would i still want to be a mother? would i be happy and fulfilled being a single mom? and that always reminds me that no, i dont want kids for a reason, and having a partner is not a guarantee they’ll always be there to help raise their kid

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Anonymous 11w

like i HATE the whole “you’ll change your mind” thing that people say and now i’m falling right into that smh

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Anonymous 11w

I feel the same with without a bf lol

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