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Why is it so fkn hard to get a job. Like I have a degree and I got a grocery store job. I went in to give them my passport info and I walked out nearly crying abt how my life has failed. I’m in my car literally crying cuz this
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Anonymous 10w

I don’t even have a car lol but in all seriousness the job market is ruthless rn you’re still young and figuring it out you’re not failed. delayed is not denied! don’t self pity bc it’s not the job you want just for now. whether you call it half full or half empty is gonna determine your mood

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Anonymous 10w

In the same boat as you rn. I busted my mf ass for my degree which absolutely destroyed my mental health. All for it to be useless bc I work at a grocery store. I sacrificed so much time, money, and my mental health just for it to be completely fucking useless. I’m a failure and it’s embarrassing

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Anonymous 10w

I’m so scared this is all I’m ever going to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

It’s so demeaning that i genuinely don’t wanna work in any field, even the one I got my degree in and I’m just like well what now. Like why did I even get my degree

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

The thing is, it’s not even my car, it’s my parents and they won’t let me forget that. My parents are well kinda bad people like abusive. If I got out of state I don’t get their extra car for me and my 21 year old sister who doesn’t even have a license. The extra car is my mom’s weekend chores car. What a luxury

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I’ve changed my major so many times Bc I don’t know what to do. But I was pressured to go to college so I did and now I have an associates in biology after 5 years and 2 suicide attempts. It wasn’t fucking worth it at all. I wish I never went to college in the first place. I’ll never be the same mentally again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I have a bachelors in biological sciences, it’s literally the same. I got it in 5 years and I wanna go further with it but I don’t have the money for that and there is some bs with my parents with that. I worked so hard for that degree and for this. Like I’m tired

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I feel like I’m older too cuz in my culture, my age rn is when girls get married and I’m like I’m not even remotely ready but I wish I was to have that option. Like I wish I had it together enough

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I’m sorry about your parents, the support system can really be a make or break kind of deal but I’m behind where I should be in life so I can relate to feeling like it’s not together but beating yourself up won’t help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Write a review about ur major on ratemymajor.com amd talk about how ur major was for everyone u switched

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Aw I’m sorry. Just don’t lose hope 🥺

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