
this. and i don’t feel comfortable being thought of in that way (who would) and i’ve expressed that to people but even my “friends” will go out of their way to objectify me or point them out and when ive said im uncomfy they’ll claim its to help me “feel confident/empowered/reclaiming it” like ??? idk that doesn’t feel empowering at all 😭
THIS. and i think there’s lowkey a misunderstanding and people just assume they see areola then they’re gonna see nip too and like… you’re not 😭 (at least in my experience. and lowkey even if you did like… what’s the big deal?? i wish they weren’t seen as inappropriate considering babies feed off them but whatever i suppose) if people weren’t weird i’d just wear what i want