and if I said I hate the term “cracked” because it contributes to the idea that sex is a damaging, fundamentally changing thing & kinda is just purity culture in another form … would that be too woke …
no, politics of language is real and worth talking about
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Anonymous1w
to ride the wave of this positive woke, I mainly see [hetero] girls saying "I want to be/get cracked", never het guys, and "I want to crack" usually out of guys.
fueling the notion that sex is something done onto females!!!
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Anonymous1w
yeah and I don’t like women that think using misogynistic language regarding sex is making progress because it’s not. and then everyone’s surprised when some women internalize these ideas that could trigger a response akin to being “purity culture”
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Anonymous#21w
very unfortunately old mentality. BAKED into our language regarding sex, it’s terrible