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Girl Talk 9w
Have a first date planned with a guy for once so I'm giving it a chance but wtf do I do if his messaging is icking me out 😭 I feel bad not responding when I'm busy but he keeps messaging 24/7, plus now idk what we will even have to talk about when we meet
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Anonymous 9w

ngl he's giving unemployed, no hobbies, and codependent. i personally think texting at all times is a giant red flag... but live your life girl. you've been warned 😭🙏

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Anonymous 9w

completely valid to cancel. that's a scary amount of communication too soon i'd also back out

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Anonymous 9w

Why does he seem to have unlimited free time 😔 I really don't want someone codependent and I hate talking over text I'd rather call or plan something to hangout

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Ok but how do I cancel if it's for Sunday and we just confirmed it today 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I'm lowkey devastated because it sounds like we have a lot of similar interests besides the fact it seems like he has no semi frequent hobbies/plans

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

girl that's plenty of time just text that you don't think yall would be a good match so you'd like to cancel and wish him the best in dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Thanks yall 😭🫶 the more I think about it the more I realize how bad it is

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