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guys i have a problem of being pursued and then boring guys to death (exaggeration) but the point is they lose interest 🥲 my biggest insecurity my whole life has been my personality
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Anonymous 2d

Read books maybe?

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Anonymous 2d

even friendships, my longest lasting friendships. i’m not the fun friend, im the friend to talk deeply with or philosophically, i love it and my best friends appreciate it so much but im not spontaneous and fun unless im drunk and i only discovered that in my 20s but ofc im not going drink everytime i want people to enjoy hanging with me 😞 so i dont make many new friends, just acquaintances thru work

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Anonymous 2d

Eh... I’m the “fun girl” but it’s mostly just ADHD and BPD impulsivity. “Fun girls” are usually only fun for the first three months then they start acting up in some form. Plus we’re reckless, late for everything, always broke, impulsive, emotionally unstable… it’s not all it’s cracked out to be

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Anonymous 2d

Get some hobbies

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Plus, ive been insecure about my personality too, but its because people see you as “too much” or you feel like a burden 🤷‍♀️ like sure im fun and interesting, but I feel broken

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