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terrified of being alone but i need to learn, so i broke up w my bf told him we’re not signing another lease after this one is up. im devastated. he’s so sweet and he’s heartbroken, we’ve been tg for 3.5 years and living tg for 2. how do i move forward :(
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Anonymous 20w

he keeps asking why i can’t grow while still in our relationship and im tempted to change my mind and just say we need to slow things down a lot and just live separately but we can stay together. but i know id be giving up on myself.

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Anonymous 20w

i have no advice but im in such a similar boat i thought i wrote this youre not alone girl

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Anonymous 20w

how is breaking up with someone you’re in a good relationship with the solution? both of you are miserable because of it. why not stay together and just live separately so u still have experience being by yourself? how is that giving up on yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

never said it was a good relationship… you projecting, bro? 😅

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