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Girl Talk 24w
I hate genuinely being in the mindset of “if I don’t get my hopes up, they can’t disappoint me” and “if I don’t plan for them to stay, I won’t be shocked when they leave“ I just wanna be able to depend on people
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Anonymous 24w

unfortunately these mindsets you described are much more emotionally safe than trusting and depending on ppl especially at this age when everything is so turbulent!!

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