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Girls. Im an adult and why have I never experienced being “horny” and touching myself doesn’t feel good it feels like nothing and sex feels like nothing too. It genuinely feels like nothing. I feel like I have no sexual hormones :( never orgasmed before
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Anonymous 15w

so that’s called asexual!

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Anonymous 15w

I thought I was asexual for the longest time, but I’m on the spectrum of it. I do sometimes get horny but sex is never even that interesting and I find cuddling much better. Nothing wrong with not having a desire for it lol

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Anonymous 15w

Is there any chance you’re not eating enough when I was underweight I had zero sex drive

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Anonymous 15w

Are you stressed at all? Scared? Are you mentally open to the experience?

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Anonymous 15w

girl you might want to go get checked

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

But why am i like this? How do i not be that way :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

This has been a struggle my entire life. I eat plenty and am extremely healthy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Ok figured I would mention it though, glad you’re healthy :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

I’m asexual and there’s not always a “fix.” for you, it might be a physiological issue that can be solved with diet or talking to a doctor. but please, PLEASE, never engage in a sexual act you won’t enjoy just to try to “fix yourself.” speaking from experience, it isn’t worth it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

no im not. yes i think i just have a lack of hormones or something :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

you’re assuming that it’s a bad thing. it’s not!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Could this possibly be me too? I don’t get pleasure from penetration (found out it’s more common w women) I love getting ate out I’ve been questioned “are you sure you’re not lesbian?” And um I don’t think that’s how that works 😭😭 but yeah sex isn’t on my mind and I thought some things wrong with me but on the other hand I thought it just meant I’m becoming a woman 😭 and kinda like that I’m not hungry for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Honestly, I know this may be a personal question. But do you believe in/have a relationship with God? Cause there’s a few ways we can look at this just depending on honestly like who you are as a person. Either way is totally fine. But I don’t think that you’re not normal

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