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boyfriend and i broke up a little under a month ago. i still love him dearly and we are on wonderful terms, this split was needed badly & we both hope that if it works out again it works out— but i am still so sad. i miss him so much and i am so lonely.
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Anonymous 2w

i am angry that we didn’t talk it out a little more even if it might not have helped and i am angry that he is being smart and not giving in to my pleads for try again but god i want it to work out and i want to be happy again and i want to be held by my handsome boy more than anything and it is all so overwhelming. i’ve never been broken up with before and he was my first everything. i am so distraught and i miss him ugh

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Anonymous 2w

Wait I’m going through something so similar except we ended on terrible terms and omg it was so hard

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

nobody gaf i just need to get this out into the world. my best friend just got a boyfriend who is wonderful but she’s always with him these days so im double lonely 😞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Maybe I can help you out can we chat?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Hey can I help you out send me a dm? looking forward hearing from you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i am lucky to get to keep mine in my life and such but i still feel like i am dying this is awful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I feel like if he was in my life like you’re saying yours is I would be struggling even more like girl do you need anything? Cause I can’t even imagine if I was still in those shoes it was like hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i haven’t decided if it’s made it harder or not— our breakup was mostly mutual (i wasn’t happy and it was starting to really hurt him) & we want to keep eachother around because we both really do think we make great friends at the least and he is the most caring and patient and kind ever and still is. i am deeply grateful to have him in a way still but it sucks when he is the one to tell me that i need to focus on myself for a little bit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i don’t know i’m rambling this fuckinf sucks kms

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Im literally having flashbacks to my breakup oh girl I hope you’re okay seriously this will pass but dm if you ever need to vent!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

i lowkey will sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Don’t apologize it’s okay I get it 🫶

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