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“Do I look under 21 years old” idk bitch do I look like I wanna lose my fucking job. Give me that god damn license
1716 upvotes, 34 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "“Do I look under 21 years old” idk bitch do I look like I wanna lose my fucking job. Give me that god damn license"
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Anonymous 19w

NO LITERALLY. I used to work at a supermarket with a liquor license and by state law we had to ID anyone who looked 45 and under. Like im sorry but I didnt wanna lose my job

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Anonymous 19w

It always shocks me when servers don’t ID me if I’m with my mom or family. Last night I was at a restaurant with a dress on and pigtails in my hair and they didn’t ID me. Like “yup you look like you are old enough to drink a couple passionate fruit margaritas” Every time it happens I turn to my mom (we both work in restaurants) and whisper “that’s an ABC violation” and she chuckles. She’s a little surprised too

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Anonymous 19w

Look, a fair warning. The only time I’ll ask is bc I’m turning 21 in October 🥲

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Anonymous 19w

I IDd somebody today and they said the same thing asking if they didn’t look 21… they turned 21 less than two months ago

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Anonymous 19w

And if you accidentally ever did sell to someone under 21 you could get in legal trouble. I don’t trust how old anyone looks. A guy at my current job got fired and had to go to court for selling underage to someone who genuinely looked about 30 years old based on the security camera 😭

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Anonymous 19w

this is beautiful

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Anonymous 19w

Some places even have a policy where anyone regardless of age must be id’d. I’m 21 but was constantly mistaken for mid 20s even while I was 18 and have been accidentally served champagne at wedding events and offered it dining at wineries that allow minors. Even worse I’d be hanging out with friends my age who look younger and someone would come up asking why I’m 25 surrounded by 19 y/os someone even thought I was 27 and accused me of grooming freshmen on campus while I was a 19 y/o freshman 💀

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Anonymous 19w

i ask this just to ask with no intention of buying alcohol

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Anonymous 19w

Its always funny when I go out with my friend who just turned 21. He makes a big show of getting his ID out, only for them to accept his order and walk away before he can fully get the wallet out of his pocket. He always gets so sad😭

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Anonymous 19w

i have no issue giving them my ID but sometimes they are like “you look really young. When’s your birthday” and then i’m like damn i don’t atleast look my age 😭

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Anonymous 19w

You should say that

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Anonymous 19w

no i get this completely but conversely i get soooo tired & embarrassed when the first question is “are you SURE you’re 21…” yes girl im sure. 23 actually. i don’t mind giving u my ID bc i understand but can a girl catch a break

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Anonymous 19w

Idk man is it so much to ask you give someone a break. I swear I’m not tryna get you fired but I’m exhausted and we know damn well I don’t look a day under 30 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

Our work would flay someone if they didn’t ID a customer because we have a nearby store that’s been caught THREE times by ABC and their managers/proprietors and servers keep getting fired😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19w

in some states we don’t have to check ids if you’re with who we assume to be your parent or spouse! found that out getting my tabc lol

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Anonymous replying to -> bigdarkcherry 19w

Thank you governor🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

typically in tx if you are w your parents you can drink if you are over 18

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Anonymous replying to -> bigdarkcherry 19w

in wisco you can drink w your parents at any age lol

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Anonymous replying to -> bigdarkcherry 19w

i’m in texas working bar 😛! crazy little law

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 19w

work it work it

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Anonymous replying to -> bigdarkcherry 19w

It’s so interesting to learn about how other states approach alcohol. In TN we are supposed to card anyone who orders alcohol. Additionally, if you’re at a store, everyone with you has to show an ID. I was at Walmart and I was buying alcohol for myself and I had my boyfriend with me and I was 21 and he wasn’t. They had to refuse the sale since he was underage. I didn’t know that was a law here😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19w

I would’ve said “i assumed older”

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 19w

could have botox yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 19w

& additionally one time when i was abroad i was trying to buy wine BUT a) i look young 2) i wasn’t wearing makeup this day and 3) i have lost a lot of weight since that photo was taken and they just simply denied it. i was sooo embarrassed bc what does a girl do in that situation when my real ID doesn’t even count 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

how about give us a break? you're not gonna lose your ability to pay rent over this. we could. pulling out your ID is not a big deal. unemployment is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 19w

your id should be in your registered state within the city bounds and limits of YOUR COUNTY

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

too exhausted to get your ID out?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 19w

These rules exist for a reason, many bars and restaurants near me closed because all their money came from booze and there was one employee who didn’t follow the rules and served underage friends or one usual that was caught using a fake id for months. If a place with a bar loses their liquor license once (even worse multiple times like the one restaurant near me) they are doomed to close all their staff will lose their jobs and if it’s a family owned business they’ll be hit even harder.

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Anonymous replying to -> bigdarkcherry 19w

... what?

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Anonymous 19w

I always wonder if theyre arguing because theyre offended that you don’t think they look their age or if they’re not of age and REALLY dont wanna show their ID💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18w

This is the entire point. Someone has to serve underage for it to be a violation. If you’re too dumb to tell someone who looks 45 isn’t under 21, you’re prob going to let a fake id in and lose your job anyway. Truth hurts

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 18w

not everybody who checks ID is working at a bar or serving alcohol. people can and do get fired for violating many company policies requiring ID beyond what the law requires

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18w

with the police

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 18w

typically what happens if one kid.student / friend will buy a fake for everyone in the friend group to use. or they can go to a bar tab which is paid an org/ soro/frat as an invited guest ect this is where there’s always big worries bc most of them here are underclassman bc they have a lighter school schedule. or maybe even less course work than most students, typically those who have thursday/fridays off or have online classes that could start at later hours….

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