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A guy I liked unadded me on snap is it like funny hah to text him on the app we met on and be like damn I got the boot or is that desperate and just lame
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Anonymous 4w

I’m sorry but girl you don’t want him. His behavior is already pretty shitty. Imagine how you’re gonna feel when he’s acting like that but you still want more. And calling you bad doesn’t mean he likes you. He was drunk and horny. I really hope this doesn’t come off the wrong way. Just know this is someone who went through the same scenario. I stayed with him for years with no title no nothing. I let myself get my feelings hurt by taking it that far when his actions were more than clear.

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Anonymous 4w

Oh I should add he left me on open like 2 days ago but over the weekend when we was drunk kept telling me how bad I was and how much he wanted me to

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Anonymous 4w

I also just wanna know why now why after two days of leaving me on read he decided to unadd me in the middle of the day

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Anonymous 4w

it is indeed embarrassing

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Anonymous 4w

Men will bring you home to meet the family, meet yours, raise a kid with you and STILLLL try to play with you 😭😭 that’s something you gotta learn quick. Their doesn need to be a why other than free will. Simply because they can. And begging doesn’t hold them accountable. It shows them that we’re coming back for more.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

No I appreciate it, not what I wanted to hear but what I needed :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Convincing yourself you want a man like him and that you can get his attitude to change is setting yourself up. Lack of communication is an issue in itself. Find yourself a real man. One better looking. I just know he ugly asf.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I don’t even really want him just wanna call him out on his behavior cuz it’s annoying but obv hurts a little too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Letting him know he got under your skin is the last thing you wanna do. As hard as it is you’ll get more relief out of just letting him go😭 I’m the same way though. I can’t just let it go. You HAVE to understand why I think you’re a dickhead or I can’t move on.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ugh yeah true I’m just bummed I want him to know I know but I shouldn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And yk he thought he got the last lick in too 😭😭😭 that makes it even more irritating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I know your right and I’m trying to think of like any way to justify it which is so loser of me. I’m like maybe if I get drunk I can play it off as a drunk text

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You’re not a loser. I’ll admit to literally pleading with a man to act right a telling him I’d change to make him happy. I lost all self respect in that moment looking back 😭 embarrassing asf. Girl don’t be me. I thought I could change the way he feel. But really he’s just gonna feel what he feels.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

If he don’t care enough to atleast communicate to you what his issues are rather than ghosting then I think you dodged a bullet.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

just know it will do nothing but give him one more place to ghost u or unadd u on. don't keep giving him chances to make u feel a fool, never chase a man or expect closure from anyone but urself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ugh yeah I just wish I knew why like I’m thinking maybe it was me because he WANTED me like was calling texting doing everything when he was drunk then boom nothing and then a random unadd like why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Men can be weird emotionless creatures with very little respect for women. Stay away from those types of men. Far. As fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

the why literally does not matter, he ghosted and unadded. all u need to knw is tht he is gone and immature

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah fuck that’s so sucky like who even cares he was honestly ugly but the validation felt nice and feel seen felt nice I didn’t even care that he was a dick

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah that’s so true thank you for being such a great person and telling me the hard truths instead of humoring me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Just keep looking girl. You’ll find your one in a million one day ✨. You just have to be patient. Don’t settle for a loser like that. Fuck him and his bald headed ass mama. ❤️‍🔥

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