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What would you do if you found out your boyfriend follows a thirst trap account on instagram? Bf and I have been together for almost 1.5 years, the accounts supposed to a couple making “relatable content” but it’s just a shrine to her boobs.
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Anonymous 20w

ask him about it and see his reaction. he might not even remember following it tbh, but also know your feelings and give him shit if you want to.

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Anonymous 20w

Personally I don’t think it’s a big deal but if it is a big deal to you then have a mature conversation and set the boundary that you don’t want him to follow accounts with attractive women. I would consider though that maybe your history of getting cheated on has made you more reactive

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

Yeah… he did like a lot of their “relatable couple videos” though. Part of me hopes he was drunk when he did and somehow thought the incredibly staged fake skits they were doing were actually funny… and that the attractive woman showing off her tits wasn’t the main attraction. I don’t really want to give him hell, we were arguing a lot and were doing better now. I just want him to understand how hurt I am, and how insecure it makes me feel.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

absolutely, your feelings are so valid. if he doesn’t take it we’ll just know that you are justified in being upset 💕 i wish the best for you and for your relationship if that’s what will bring you happiness

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

To that sort of thing

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