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having a conversation with an ex a while after the breakup will not give you closure, only you can give yourself closure
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Anonymous 12h

The conversations my ex and I had after the breakup to try to give each other closure ended with sex, screaming, and or crying so yeah talking with ex’s after beyond sorting out picking up each of your things is no bueno

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Anonymous 11h

okay mine did end in sex but it actually did give me a lot of closure fr after that day it literally felt like a weight lifted off my shoulders and i’ve barley thought of him since

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Anonymous 8h

Wanting closure is just wanting to write an ending to your relationship story with your ex which, by definition, can’t happen anymore by the time they’re your ex.

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