I agree, but in that vein, I think sexual compatibility is something that you have to be in the relationship for a while to determine. Unfortunately it’s not the kind of thing you can ask a potential partner about and see if you align

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it always frustrates me when I see people say “but if we love each other enough then we can make it work,” as if that’s how incompatibilities work. you inherently cannot “fix” incompatibilities, and if you’re still unhappy even with a compromise then you shouldn’t be together.

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