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Genuine question, why do guys ghost you or randomly unadd you on snap even tho you talked to them for weeks everyday and had good conversations? Like shit pisses me off. Like atleast just tell me what's wrong before ghosting me out if no where.
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Anonymous 4w

bc they don’t care anymore or they found someone else. a lot of guys don’t even get emotionally invested. especially if you never actually meet irl

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Anonymous 4w

No genuine interest. Never did I unadd a guy I was uninterested in, but I did ghost them regularly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

And this is why I really wish I was gay. Guys seem to be just assholes. It’s either I have my expectations way to high or I’m delusional

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

maybe perhaps look into a new type of guy ?? just a thought because i was in a similar situation and had to broaden my horizons (i’m not saying to lower your expectations & standards / settle for less)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I genuinely feel like I don’t have a type in guys. All the guys I have ever talked to end up doing this or only want to sext during the night and try pressuring me into sending nudes. I just don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I get that. I honestly just don’t snap/text guys after 8pm because it ALWAYS gets sext-y at night, so they don’t even have the opportunity to. i honestly just get so beyond turned off when guys can’t regulate their sexual urges that i will block every guy that asks for n00ds, sexting, etc. Just hoping the right one comes along

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