Anonymous OP 10w

A drift happened bc I tried getting a drink and left empty handed service sucked and we left before the show ended and that was abt it. We had plans to go on a date that passed last week. We also had mentioned other plans in the meantime leading up abt hikes, another race, going for ride etc etc. even mentioned like yes friends for me is fine dates is cool I’m open to it. He says I’m hard to read through text tho so like boy is lwk illiterate I can deal w that. But not hard to read how I talk fr

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Anonymous OP 10w

So we were going to go see a movie like 3 weeks ago, he got called into work moments before I was abt to leave. And then I asked him on a hike bc i would be in his area and k mentioned it agin bc “we’ll see” isn’t an answer and he had other plans. Mentioned going somewhere else a week later after some storms and he’s been busy, a storm hit his place hard ig I haven’t seen. I leave the ball in his court and I get left on delivered on insta he’s weird abt his phone w work matters. I agree on it

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Anonymous OP 10w

But leaving me on delivery sucks. I can understand if he can see the dm in a notification instead. He’s posted the last few days inna fat while. And I sent a snap the other day abt an old topic I saw in person- and asked how I have been and I said he should focus more on himself and said it seemed like I was telling him to fuck off. I said no but he’s busy and the house, he agreed and I offered help. Asked if I knew flooring I said I’m willing to learn and all I got was an lol.

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Anonymous OP 10w

So now, it’s been like 2 months near no communication besides refusals from him, him leaving the movie thing, and me purposely letting the date go bc the storm buizz. Next week is Labor Day weekend and I want to go apple picking in his area do I ask ? Or would I make a total idiot of myself. I like him well enough to maintain a friendship, a date would be better. But apple picking is friendly right?

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Anonymous #1 10w

I’m here please 😭

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Anonymous OP 10w

Oh not to mention I had NO CLUE he was flirting and my friends even said it was like we were together one of the times I asked him to a bar. At the race it rained like all day and he took his jacket for me to sit on and I made him wesr it bc it was cold n wet and said smth lien chivalry is dead sheesh. Or paid for a bar he never drank at and the race and tricked me around to put money back in my pocket (he’s pretty well off for himself alone he don’t NEED it) but has definitely made it clear

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