
Not to be the friend who’s too woke but I feel like it’s just in a way you carry yourself? I feel a lot more comfortable in my femininity now that I found my personal style than when I was chasing trends I didn’t fully looovee (but hair care routine too, I found out I had naturally curly hair and feel more confident now than I did straightening it everyday)
But on my path to working towards it I was just messin around with makeup styles I liked and found what I liked, tested out different fashion until I found something that when I put on I had a “if I was a cartoon character this would be my outfit” feeling. Haircare is just hit or miss for finding what you like (same w perfume bc I love musky and more masculine scents even tho I’m not their target audience lol)