Anonymous OP 9w

But yeah, he dropped out of the major he had in our junior college (idk if he finished a degree after), gained weight (he was a gym rat that would make jokes about bigger people), and now he’s in his mid 20s and married to toxic girl and expecting a baby. I transferred and graduated from the uni he thought was ‘ambitious’ and I’m the fittest I’ve been in my life. Thank you karma 💕

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Anonymous OP 9w

Don’t get me wrong, I hope all the best for them, their relationship, and their kid; if he’s content with that life and it’s what he wants, even better! I’ve moved on enough that I know I get nothing from them being miserable or unhappy. I just know that wasn’t the life I wanted and that the him from 5-7 years ago would be kind of horrified by it all, so I feel like I’ve dodged a massive bullet

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I don’t care about if my exes are ‘fat’ are not, I think it makes me happy more cause he was shitty to bigger people. He would tell me “if we go out and I see a fat person, I’m gonna whisper to you ‘look it’s Ms. puff’” which made me really uncomfortable. It’s kind of nice to imagine he might have more empathy now

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Anonymous OP 9w

I guess also a part of it too with comparing these aspects of our lives is that after things ended he really manipulated me (I was naive and he made me think other girls at school would have a problem with me that we had dated. It was really bc he’d done the same thing to another girl there already so people had a problem with him) so it’s kind of a schadenfreude that he’s the person he would have mocked years ago while me and the other girls he cheated on are all pretty fit rn

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