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i think a lot about that post someone made about people sexualizing “daddy” so much. i still call mines daddy and when i was talking about him today to someone i got the weirdest look and now im irritated
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Anonymous 1w

I really hate how normalized the ddlg/ageplay kink has gotten, I don’t think it’s inherently bad but it shouldn’t be expected that everyone’s into it

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Anonymous 1w

there is no age limit on what you call your parents! it is not our fault you are so porn brained you cannot separate it from some kink

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Anonymous 6d

i wholeheartedly agree with this post. my southern grandmother still refers to her father as daddy to this day. But one thing i’ve been thinking about is whether the whole calling your man “daddy” thing is always a weird kink.. I always think of referring to your partner by mama/daddy like how parents talk to their children about their partner. like “hey daughter, go see daddy!” or “look, daddy is home.” and it being kinda like a thing, yeah this the man i make kids with.

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Anonymous 6d

ik i have my mom as “mommy” in my phone and i just have my dad as “dad” bc it feels too weird now😭

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Anonymous 1w

i stopped calling my dad daddy when i started dating bc it was awkward. i wonder if my dad caught on😭

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Anonymous 1w

Idk the words mommy and daddy have always been weird to me. I call my mom, mom or momma but dad is just dad or father. I think daddy and mommy are childlike

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

that’s understandable! it just gets odd when others try to think we’re weird for still calling our father that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i do think its inherently bad as a sexual thing. i dont really get age regression as a non sexual thing but thats fine, but if youre getting off to it? so gross

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Oh I think it’s gross too, but it’s not inherently “bad”. Like in the sense that some people call puppy play bestiality or ddlg pedophilia/incest, it’s not actually those things and calling them that downplays actual crimes/abuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

its a big thing down south to call your parents mama and daddy. even the elderly folks down here do

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

yeah i do agree that it waters down the severity of real crimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

I’m from the south and I don’t know anyone who calls their family that

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

theres no way youre from the south and dont know anyone who does unless youre talking atlanta or another big city

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Literally from Texas and even go to school in Arkansas. Ik people that call their mother, momma. I have one friend that has her mom’s name as mommy in her phone but doesn’t call her that. But dad is always dad or their name. Again I think it’s just a childlike thing and most people grow out of calling their parents mommy and daddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

texas and arkansas are barely southern, im talking deep south. just bc you dont see it in the two out of 50 states youve been in doesnt mean its not normal somewhere else

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

You must mean another continent bc Texas is quite literally the south. Also quick to assume I’ve been to 2/50 states, no need to get defensive in any way I simply said it’s not common to say that where I’m from in the SOUTH

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

and im saying its common in the deep south dude, chill

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

says the one who started getting defensive???

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

when? youre the only one thats upset rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

And I quote “ just because you don’t see it in the two out of 50 states you’ve been in” like so uncalled for. “Dude chill” nobody was mad bc it’s not common where I’m from.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

that upset you? you mentioned 2 states, i referenced the 2 states you mentioned, i didnt think it would be so controversial

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Upset? No, if you had worded it such as “just because it’s not common in those two states doesn’t mean it’s not normal somewhere else” that would’ve been fine bc say your piece girl but the conversation was that I must not be from the south and I simply told the girl I’m from the south. Instead you what you said sounded more targeted then you had to go say dude chill when that wasn’t needed

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6d

sorry i didnt carefully word my comment on the anonymous app so as to not hurt your feelings. i think this is a bit of an overreaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6d

Dude chill not hurt feelings just saying your words sounded targeted, that’s it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

just thinking out loud, that’s kinda how i see the whole calling your partner daddy thing but I know there’s some weirdos out there who think incest is sexy. My parents always modeled a good affectionate married relationship and when talking to the kids about each other would use mommy/daddy so that’s where i see the connection.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

“hey daddy”(my kids dad), 😏😊, vs “hey daddy” (my dad), 😟🤢. lol. Also this way it’s not weird to keep calling your own father daddy because it’s always about couples, not age regression stuff.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6d

That’s how I’ve seen it honestly, that’s what makes the most sense

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