
i wholeheartedly agree with this post. my southern grandmother still refers to her father as daddy to this day. But one thing i’ve been thinking about is whether the whole calling your man “daddy” thing is always a weird kink.. I always think of referring to your partner by mama/daddy like how parents talk to their children about their partner. like “hey daughter, go see daddy!” or “look, daddy is home.” and it being kinda like a thing, yeah this the man i make kids with.
Literally from Texas and even go to school in Arkansas. Ik people that call their mother, momma. I have one friend that has her mom’s name as mommy in her phone but doesn’t call her that. But dad is always dad or their name. Again I think it’s just a childlike thing and most people grow out of calling their parents mommy and daddy
Upset? No, if you had worded it such as “just because it’s not common in those two states doesn’t mean it’s not normal somewhere else” that would’ve been fine bc say your piece girl but the conversation was that I must not be from the south and I simply told the girl I’m from the south. Instead you what you said sounded more targeted then you had to go say dude chill when that wasn’t needed
just thinking out loud, that’s kinda how i see the whole calling your partner daddy thing but I know there’s some weirdos out there who think incest is sexy. My parents always modeled a good affectionate married relationship and when talking to the kids about each other would use mommy/daddy so that’s where i see the connection.