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Girl Talk 7w
Almost hooked up with someone last night and chickened out cause I’m a virgin 😭😭
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Anonymous 7w

probably the universe giving you a sign mama

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t wanna be that person, cause it’s your body and your choice at the end of the day, but I wouldn’t advise your 1st time being just some random hookup. Unless you’re ok with that though of course

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Anonymous 7w

this was me your age that’s crazy but now i’m 23 and still a virgin ☺️ and thinking of waiting till marriage

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Anonymous 7w

I think this is a sign that you should wait for something meaningful babe🫶

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Anonymous 7w

Highly highly recommend you lose your virginity to a guy that’s more than just a hook up cuz it hurts really fucking bad so you wanna make sure you’re with someone you can really really trust and that’ll listen to you

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Anonymous 7w

Honestly good. You don’t wanna throw away your first time in some random hookup anyway. Natural response tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

A very big one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Oh you’re fine! I just wanted to get rid of my virginity because I’m 20 turning 21 and I feel like I’m going slower than the girls my age. But honestly I’m kinda glad I chickened out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Don’t feel pressured, at the end of the day you can do whatever you want but many women wait until later and even until marriage because that’s what they’re comfortable with. It doesn’t make you a loser or “slower than other women.” This is a really big decision that should be thoroughly thought out. I don’t want you to regret it like many do (like myself)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

U never wanna do somtn cuz of other ppl mamas ..Getting rid of ur virginity cuz of other ppls perceptions of u is some kind of coercion I feel like. It’s not a fully informed confident decision. Sex, no matter what ppl say, is lwk a big deal. Don’t just do it w a loser just cuz . U deserve way more than that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’m also waiting until marriage . Men are ew rn . I’ll only do it w someone I trust and I’ll only trust a man who fully commits to me .

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

And this isn’t some belief about purity or anything, mind you. I just feel should be something special. Personally I don’t think my first time would have been as magical if it was as a one-night-stand.

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