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Girl Talk 4d
Welp I’m about to crash tf out… canceled on me cause guess what I found out… HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND WHILE TALKING TO ME!! And CANCELLED CAUSE HE SAID HE FELT BAD AND WOULD RATHER TAKE HER!! Fuck military men 🖕🏽I cussed him out and blocked him.
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Girl Talk 19w
Yall I got back in touch with my high school crush and he’s in the marines. HE ASKED ME TO BE HIS DATE AT THE MARINE CORP BALL THIS YEAR!! 😭♥️ idk what color dress to get!! Ideas????! Help a girl out please!
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Anonymous 4d

First mistake was staying in the talking stage for 19 weeks omg 😭 I hope you take this time just to heal from that cuz I can only imagine how much that could mentally break you. Definitely have a therapist guide you while you heal because it’s easy to go down the path of blaming yourself for every little thing afterwards

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

He’s half way across the country and said he would rather “ask me in person”. Yes it fucking hurt! I cried for hours 😭 cause like wtf who would do that????

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

I fell for that once and it was the same situation. It’s so shitty but think about it this way (no matter what they may come back arguing with) no one would wanna wait to start a relationship if they actually wanted it to happen. The physical stuff makes sense but asking a simple question shouldn’t be something to drag out that long and if anything they could’ve made the first date perfect and suited for you. I hope I make sense

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