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I playfully tapped my bf on the head with two fingers and he open handed slapped my naked back so hard it left a mark lol
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Anonymous 6d

eugh????

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Anonymous 6d

that was an extreme overreaction, if he didn’t wanna be tapped he could’ve told you to stop in a nice way. if he’s comfortable resorting to that much violence (i wouldn’t say it’s an accident because he would’ve had to wind up for that slap), you shouldn’t be afraid to playfully mess with your partner

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

playfully tap him with your car idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

lol his hand print is on my back and I'm crying rn in the bathroom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

leave him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I'm thinking about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

THIS

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

he threw his keys at me once "accidentally" and it left a mark on my chest but I let it go bc it was accidental

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

erm no- you need to leave him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I know I sound super super stupid: but I don't know how and I don't know if I'm 100%. He has more great moments than he does bad moments. I know he has a diagnosis of bipolar but he takes meds. I just don't know why at this point in our relationship/ 2 years and 6 months- he thinks it's okay to do that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Well it’s not your job to know just your job to decide if you wanna be treated like that. If he escalates, this type of stuff is how they usually test the water to see what you put up with. Boyfriends apologize for LESS, after arguments, etc. did he even apologize profusely?? I know it hurts a lot both physically and mentally and be a sensitive subject but please don’t brush this under the rug.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

He said I'm sorry after I told him he left a mark on my back and then I took a shower instant after and he said he's sorry and he feels bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

That’s good, he should rlly understand he can’t ever do it again tho because who would wanna smack their gf that hard 😭 I’d make them write some big essay or something

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Yea I'm ignoring his texts currently and I don't know how to handle his apologies lol bc I'm upset

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