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Slow the response rate… don’t reply as quickly, or as often as you normally would leading up to the day of the date… that way yall can “pick up where you left off” in the texting convo. Or if yall have not FaceTimed yet, this would be a good time to maybe re-ask some of your previous questions while yall were just texting. So that you can get better clarity and understanding from him directly. Gives you an opportunity to read his body language and so forth. Just some ideas… hope this helps. 😌

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Just to clarify… I’m not saying to stop texting all together. Simply take a smidge longer ti reply than what you normally would. Don’t want to scare him off because he thinks you are loosing interest.

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