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I’m interested in hearing other women’s opinions on marriage. Yay or nay? Is it worth it/beneficial at all for a woman to get married or is it better to just stay in a partnership without it marriage? Real question
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Anonymous 4w

i don’t think it’s the path for everyone but for me i want it. there’s tax reasons, medical reasons, religious reasons, and if the worst case happens a bf/gf can just leave and take assets but a husband/wife can’t. there’s ways around a few of the stuff but honestly marriage to me just is more secure than them. overall it just depends on how you and your partner feel about marriage and if it’s the right path for yall

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Anonymous 4w

if this helps: i would rather do anything else than get married. i’m 23 and i don’t ever see myself settling down with someone. i also don’t want kids so marriage doesn’t feel like a need for me. obviously this is STRICTLY my opinion and choice. i also only date girls now, so maybe it would change the trajectory of my life in terms of getting married as well but getting married/being a mom has NEVER been a dream of mine like it is for others. things can change but-

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Anonymous 4w

I wanna know too

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Anonymous 4w

statistically married women die sooner, make less money, have worse mental health, are more likely to be exposed to violence, and do more household labor compared to single women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i hope this makes sense i’m barely awake 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> moonlightbae 4w

but i’ve felt this way since i was a child. i’ve never been the type to think about my dream wedding this that and the other. sorry for the rant 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

this! also marriage doesn’t have to be a huge commitment if you don’t want it to be, if you want it for the extra benefits just get eloped in a court room and celebrate after honestly

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