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Would you rather
#poll
Him 100% bills/ Her 100% housework
Split bills and housework equitably
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Anonymous 9w

i’d prefer a house husband

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Anonymous 9w

My ideal financial situation is being able to do my own personal business out of my home while I have the financial security of my husband to get me started. Also to continue learning new skills and getting more degrees along the way. Plus I love cleaning and cooking, but it becomes a chore when 40+ hours a week are spent away from home at a mentally draining job :/

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Anonymous 9w

Her 100% bills / him 100% housework. I hate housework but I love my career

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Anonymous 9w

I prefer him paying more bills because I like to grocery shop, cook, and do laundry. My ideal setup would be like me working 32h and him paying like 70% bills in exchange for doing about a third of the housework

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I’m very lucky to have a partner who does a lot of cleaning and cooking on his own now, picks up the slack when I’m sick or overwhelmed, and who has been encouraging me to go back to school to try something new since I don’t see myself staying in my current job forever

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