it sounds like you are but you wanna be w someone that enhances your life and only adds to it, rather than anything feeling like a sacrifice. you would want to do things you love with them, and have each others backs, and to grow together. if yall feel secure in this way, than you should be gold but otherwise these are things to consider moving forward

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and ofc that doesn’t mean it will always be butterflies and rainbows and you might have disagreements or fights. but as long as you also have good communication and can work that type of stuff out than that’s a set up for success

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and even if you love him, thinking long term goals and what you want for each other is more important and also if you feel you might be missing out on things if you were single than I feel you probably need to talk to him on what you want

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sorry I don’t mean to give unsolicited advice 😭😭 i am just thought dumping here

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