
sour_pickle
I find it really odd how modern-day masculinity developed by the patriarchy basically says that men are weak if they cry or show emotion… but in every movie you see, the strongest men there are quite the opposite. The men express emotions and love hard.This frustrates me so much because in the men I’ve dated I’ve explicitly asked them to be more open with their emotions, and their reply is always no I can’t bc you’ll leave me. Like they have been taught that which is sad, but also it’s frustrating because I’m telling you exactly what I need in a relationship and you’re ignoring it because of some rule around masculinity? I just wish this shit didn’t exist.