Anonymous #1 3w

Is sexual manipulation illegal too?

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Anonymous #2 3w

If it were ongoing, such as repeated guilt-tripping, pressure after you said no, or making you feel worn down until you gave in, that could cross the line into coercion. In that situation, consent would no longer be freely given, and it could qualify as sexual assault.

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Anonymous #1 3w

I was guilt tripped into doing the same thing by making me feel terrible and telling me he will get blue balls and how painful that would be and it’s not right to stop because I “led him on and its my fault” or some bullshit and it actually gave me so much trauma and I didn’t realize what had happened until years later after we broke up and during the time I was SAed multiple times and I didn’t even realize because I didn’t realize it happened in relationships cuz that person claims to love you

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Anonymous #2 3w

I kissed his dick and said that’s all you get and she just started shouting that I’m selfish and I gave it to him

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Anonymous OP 3w

In all honesty I’m not sure but most full out rapes get ignored so unfortunately there is probably not much that will get done but if you really feel as if you were manipulated into it then I would say report it because if you said no once and he kept trying to get you to give in then he is no different than anyone else who SAed someone

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Anonymous OP 3w

Based on that description, no. He reacted badly and shouted, but there was no indication of repeated pressure, threats, intimidation, or an inability to leave or safely say no. Giving in after a single outburst like that generally does not meet the legal standard for sexual assault, even though his behavior was inappropriate and disrespectful.

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Anonymous #2 3w

If past behavior, threats, anger, or patterns made you feel unsafe or unable to say no, that context matters and could support a coercion claim. The issue would be whether a reasonable person in your position would have felt they did not have a real choice. Without that broader context, a single incident like the one described is usually not enough on its own.

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Anonymous #2 3w

I’m just thinking from a legal standpoint though. Idk your situation, but for charges they will definitely look into all the details such as those things to make a decision with all the context.

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