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there is genuinely nothing i fear more than getting pregnant
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Anonymous 19w

Especially in this economy

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Anonymous 19w

mine is being kidnapped and trafficked but that’s just my brain

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Anonymous 19w

I get it. It’s a long commitment and honestly I’m in an age where it’s socially acceptable if I was to become pregnant. However, I really am on the fence if I even want one. Aside from raising it the mortality rate for pregnancy is way too high. Plus, hobbies can bring just as much joy and way less responsibility

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Anonymous 19w

what aspects of it make it so scary for you? For me, it’s bringing them into this fucked up world right now. Especially bringing them into a world with our parent can’t give them everything that they would ever need at this moment. Like I would want my future kid to be set up for success. That and there were so many things that can go wrong..

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Anonymous 19w

Relatable

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19w

the idea of carrying a child and going through the pain of birth, then having to raise them for 18 years. it brings me a different type of anxiety

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19w

agreed

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19w

relatable tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

That's valid tho. At least with a pet it's a decade or so and they don't demand nearly as much.

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