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can someone please give tips on how to find your aesthetic 🙏 i always see stuff i like but can never relate them back to me & don’t know how to proceed (my wardrobe is bad pls help)
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Anonymous 8w

i always try to not lock into a certain aesthetic and i try to just wear the things i really like. but you can always make a pinterest board and try to see a general theme

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

ty! ❤️ I end up wearing comfy clothes which doesn’t end up looking very stylish — so maybe i just have to find stylish AND comfy clothes 😵‍💫 definitely a pinterest fan! but oftentimes i like one thing & then the app thinks that it’s my favorite thing in the whole world & keeps suggesting that genre so it’s a little hard to explore unless i know what to search for

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

that’s fair, i’m the same way about being comfy. i always recommend going to different thrift stores to see a WIDE variety of things. you can quickly get a good sense of things you like. even if you go and throw everything you like in a cart and then see what you like about them and not even buy them. (also a good comfy pair of jeans can help being stylish sometimes)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

!!! so true I have 1-2 pairs of jeans that I like to wear and that’s usually when I feel more put together 😭 i love thrifting too but i feel like i always end up picking grandma fits or stuff I can’t layer or incorporate into an outfit thank you for the advice:)) i’ll definitely keep working at it ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

grandma fits don’t need to be bad! lol just gotta find the right stuff, i believe in you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

!! you’re right! tysm 😋💕

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