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I don’t mind making the first move but I don’t wanna be the only one chasing
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Anonymous 4w

Like idk when you make the first move. They don't even bother making an effort. they assume you'll wanna do everything, take advantage of that all bc you showed so much interest.

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Anonymous 4w

Like it would be nice if they cared enough to match our energy instead of making you look stupid

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Anonymous 4w

I stopped approaching men. A man I have to approach is a man I don’t want tbh. My dad used to tell me all the time a man that won’t approach you is a man that won’t protect you because he will never take initiative for anything for you first. I guess that’s subconsciously with me now.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Every guy that I’ve had to approach first I ended up not respecting tbh and that’s a me thing tbh so I end it before it starts.

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