she throws my stuff away for “looking old” (not food. like LAUNDRY sheets) or holds stuff up and says “eww!” and she’s constantly buying new appliances and unplugging my stuff to put it there. and she just acts like she’s our mom. telling us when to clean and stuff (our apartment is NEVER messy btw) and saying it looked disgusting and messy when there was just a box on the table? she asked me to move some soda bottles bc they “looked bad” but they were in the kitchen like move them to where??