Anonymous #1 1d

🙄 alllll you talk about is how much sex ur having on here so yeah we get it

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it’s giving hypocrite “hate men but love dick every day” suuuuure

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stop pretending to hate men 🤷‍♀️

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What’s yours lying hypocrite

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Anonymous #4 1d

honestly as someone who is a virgin people act as if I don’t understand anything and that i couldn’t never understand unless i has done it or that i’m not like mature because of it

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Anonymous #6 1d

what do you mean “virgin”? ur talking about sex in the next comment down do you mean no sex at all or just PIV sex? bc you sound like you’ve had oral sex or anal sex or had some kind of sexual experience to me

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Is the shaming in the room with us??

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The context is in the fact that women are typically shamed FOR being virgins past a certain age 😭😭😭😭😭 some of yall just have to be a fucking victim knowing you’re the standard shit

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Anonymous #3 1d

like PIV i’ve giving head before about 3 years ago i have never done it since it was only with one older guy who took advantage

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Anonymous #6 1d

omgggg STOP acting like a “virgin” if you ALREADY HAD oral sex STOPPPP

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Anonymous #3 1d

i am a virgin i’ve never had sex i consider PIV losing your virginity

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i’ve never seen a guy naked in my life either who are you to tell me who i am

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Anonymous #6 1d

YOU GAVE A MAN HEAD. You saw his penis so YES you saw a man naked wtf are you lying about ?????

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Anonymous #6 1d

if you had sex before you NOT a virgin how many guys have you had oral sex or anal sex with? more than 0, NOT a virgin

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Anonymous #3 1d

a man being naked means not having clothes on he just pulled it out of his pants

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Anonymous #3 1d

Why are you shaming me wtf is your problem you do realize losing your virginity is mostly used when talking about PIV intercourse breaking your hymen and that’s what i consider it to be oral sex is not the same and like i said i was a child and taken advantage so wtf is is wrong with you

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Anonymous #6 1d

I HAVE NEVER SEEN A PENIS BEFORE GOT IT???? Like why are you pretending to not understand

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Anonymous #3 1d

good for you are you saying just because i was taken advantage of i can’t be a virgin like why are you so upset i just said i experience a certain type of attitude because i’ve never had penetrative sex

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It’s literally semantics and at this point you are just being a horrible person.

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if that’s how you took it then you’re just projecting your insecurities bc no one said that lol

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can you please stop being so mean it was 1 guy my entire life and he took advantage of me i’ve never done anal never had a penis inside my vagina i am a virgin idk why you are so upset my friends has never even kissed a boy and still acknowledges me as a virgin because i’ve never had PIV sex thats what we consider losing our virginity if you don’t that’s okay but stop shaming women

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Anonymous #10 1d

it’s actually really upsetting because he treated me like shit and i thought i had to to get him to love me and to hear this women hating on me for no reason is honestly insane i’ve never been with a man since i was 15 years old i’m 18 now

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Anonymous #6 1d

now it’s taken advantage of??! 3 years ago??? people have sex when they’re teens that’s not taken advantage of and I bet he’s not the first penis you’ve seen either or the only guy you were with. quit acting like you never had any sex partners it’s super annoying for us who ACTUALLY never did

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Anonymous #3 1d

go back i said it in my earlier text i said he took advantage and oral sex is not losing your virginity to me it was the first guy i ever liked and he used me i was 15 years old i think you’re triggered because you believe if i say i’m a virgin that makes me just as pure as you and you wanna say you a more pure than me okay cool but stop shaming women for no reason

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Anonymous #6 1d

I am sick and TIRED of reading people say they had oral and anal multiple times even with many men and acting like they still have “virginity” no they dont I dont know ur situation I made assumptions that were wrong but if you have sex thats it, doesnt need to be PIV thats all Im saying

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Anonymous #3 1d

for you maybe but not for me it was one guy my entire 18 years of life i was 15 i loved him he took advantage and i thought i had to give him oral to be loved back he didn’t and we stopped talking i’ve never talked to a man since. I am straight and i consider myself a virgin because i’ve never had PIV intercourse many people consider this to be true if you don’t that’s okay but thats what i believe it’s okay to believe different thinks but its not okay to attack me for it especially a women

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Anonymous #3 1d

ur just plain fucking rude #3. virginity is a social construct and has different definitions in different cultural and personal contexts. for example, the argoba people of ethiopia consider rubbing, heavy kissing, and other external contact adjacent to losing virginity. just because someone doesn’t conform to your definition of virginity doesn’t mean they can’t be a virgin. if a woman is raped, for example, would you argue with her if she still called herself a virgin?

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Anonymous #12 1d

I’ve dated a few guys and they have tried to pressure me, but I didn’t until my bf now. He made me feel safe and we were ready for that step so we had a talk about it before, set boundaries, etc.

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Anonymous #12 1d

that’s not late AT ALL if ur 21+ and virgin then we can talk

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Anonymous #1 1d

Absolutely, but that’s also not the point of the post. It’s like saying “all lives matter” when someone is talking about BLM (obviously I am not at ALL comparing virginity to the BLM movement, it’s just the only semantic example I could think of).

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Anonymous #13 1d

This is exactly what I was trying to explain, and I didn’t know if I could say the last part you said, but I 100% agree it’s all made up, and people consider it different things. I was just trying to tell people that I have been treated differently for not having PIV sex and she started to treat me as if i have 100 bodies talking about how I bet you have had sex with many people, like no, I haven’t.

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Anonymous #6 1d

i know, it’s gross of them to infer things about your sex life and force their standards of virginity onto you. as taboo as it may sound, i am of the belief that anyone who considers themself a virgin is a virgin. idc if they’ve slept with 100 people or no people, if that’s what they say they are, then i’ll respect it.

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Anonymous #3 1d

It isn’t really late, but where I grew up, you were falling behind if you hadn’t by 15. I knew 3 people who were pregnant or had kids before senior year of high school

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Anonymous #12 1d

Ok good for you but I am sick of people saying 18 is late when it’s just not and yes I am talking about NO sex of ANY kind, not just PIV sex like some people here as saying which is annoying

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Frrr I'm tired of people being purposely obtuse lol

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Anonymous #13 1d

Ok see this is EXACTLY what I’m talking about my WHOLE POINT is that if you had sex with people please stop acting like ur a virgin just stop it it’s annoying at least be honest if someone asks if youve had sex before, not just PIV

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Anonymous #12 1d

most people lose their virginity at 15-16 so don’t listen to that stupid bitch she’s just trying to control how everyone feels about their sexuality

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Anonymous #6 1d

No I said 18 is not late at all if ur in ur 20s or smth then its later

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Anonymous #3 1d

Like 25 is late

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Anonymous #3 1d

nobody asked you stop acting like your option is what goes and that everyone believes what you believe

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Anonymous #6 1d

Different communities believe different things depending on where you are in the world or who you grew up around. Everyone has different beliefs

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Anonymous #12 1d

That’s exactly what i’m trying to says #3 is trying to argue with my virginity because i don’t conform to her belief of virginity

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Anonymous #6 1d

There is no difference in a human while being a virgin vs not. It is something that humans made up

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Anonymous #12 1d

ok so what age were you sexually active of any kind of sex? no not just PIV yes any kind of sex let me guess, are you also only counting PIV 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #12 1d

i know it’s all made up but i believe if i have never had PIV sexually intercourse i am “a virgin” she’s saying any sexual contact is losing your virginity

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Anonymous #12 1d

yeah but sex is something that some people are experiencing and others are not so that missing out part is not made up.. at all

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Anonymous #3 1d

That is all of the above. Not that it affects you. Idk why you care so much about what I do with MY body

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… this didn’t hit the way you thought it would

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Anonymous #8 1d

My best advice is to not just sleep with anyone you find attractive, truly know who they are. It sucks talking to a guy then him leaving as soon as he gets what he wants :(

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The original definition of losing your virgin as a women is having PIV sex NOBODY CARES WHAT YOU THINK

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I didn’t do ANYTHING before this point. Virginity is something that people made up to shame others.

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Anonymous #12 1d

I am so sorry that she’s treating you like this she’s doing it in the chat above we should just block her

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Anonymous #6 1d

Thank you so much. You seem like a really good person

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Anonymous #12 1d

You too. I hate seeing women go around tearing each other apart for this pure Olympics that don’t even exist and telling people who they believe they are.

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Anonymous #12 1d

i’m just gonna block her because she’s making me upset and i don’t want that in my life

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Anonymous #6 1d

Me too

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Anonymous #13 1d

I think they’re mentioning that bc this community can be very sex negative and can shame women for having certain sexual experiences. I didn’t realize until recently that I was internalizing the sex negative view that’s common on here and shaming myself for being a “slut”

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Anonymous #15 1d

Being a “slut” in my opinion means sleeping around in an irresponsible way. Like sleeping with taken men, not getting testing and sleeping with multiple people a day or week. I used to be fairly slutty because I thought sex would make me feel better about myself. Turns out only truly loving yourself will make you feel better about yourself 😭😭

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Bro what 💀 there's this thing called CONTEXT CLUES but maybe you missed that lesson idk 😂

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Anonymous #14 1d

No you’re usually called a slut for having “too many” sexual partners (in total), for having casual sex or for sleeping with someone “too soon”. Also nothing wrong with sleeping with multiple ppl a day/week as long as you’re using protection. Nothing inherently irresponsible about that. The other things you described are just shitty things to do as a person

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Anonymous #15 1d

Society is an interesting place ngl. Bc in the 70s and 80s everyone was sleeping with everyone and no one used condoms but all of a sudden it’s wrong

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Anonymous #3 1d

i luh dih

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Anonymous #16 1d

period do whatever the fuck you want with your body NOBODY LISTEN TO NUMBER 3 THEY ARE SICK AND MEAN

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Anonymous #6 1d

Ig I already blocked them a while ago bc I can’t see their comments lmao

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Anonymous #14 1d

yeah they are honestly so mean and trying to control what everyone believes

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Anonymous #17 1d

Ofc women need to stick together and not tear each other apart and that women was a bully

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Anonymous #18 1d

you do realize nuns and priests exist right and they give their lives to god and don’t have sex that would make no sense does that mean that babies or children that die are sinners like what crazy shit you been taken

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Anonymous #18 1d

Why are you spreading misinformation??

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Anonymous #3 1d

Most of the girls I grew up with, myself included, had “hookups” in high school. But when we talked about losing our virginity, we meant penetrative sex. I personally don't consider giving head to be losing your virginity lol.

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Anonymous #3 1d

That might be annoying to you, but your feelings don't make something a fact. Stop acting like that’s a new concept. 🤣

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Anonymous #20 23h

let me guess… you had oral sex before or anal? so many here think that doesnt count 🙄

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Anonymous #3 23h

Right so no im actually a virgin

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Anonymous #1 23h

I think we all sing

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Anonymous #20 23h

Girl toys are sometimes better than the real thing bc a lot of guys have no idea what they’re doing and only care about themselves :(

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Anonymous #21 23h

deadass what is their issue

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Anonymous #3 22h

there is no “late” here. people can do what they want when they want as long as it’s consensual. this is so judgmental.

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Anonymous #14 22h

Luckily this man started calling me baby after we did stuff! We haven’t gone all the way yet but even if we do and he leaves me I’ll find someone else. I’ve never really cared for having a long term partner so it might sting but I also won’t die

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Anonymous #28 21h

Why?

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Anonymous #20 21h

Why don’t you want to?

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Anonymous #22 21h

Wahahahha why has this comment not got more up votes in DEAD! 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #19 21h

🙄 giving head MEANS you had oral sex you had oral sex “including you”? yeah you HOOKED UP WITH GUYS that means you had sex partners

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Anonymous #3 21h

Can #3 Shut-up? Like shhhhhh. If you don’t have anything nice to say…don’t say it at all.

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Anonymous #6 21h

No for real they’re being very cruel. Blocking now.

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Anonymous #19 21h

Same here girl don’t listen to number three she is a crazy women who can’t understand people have different beliefs i believe PIV sex is losing my virginity don’t let her make you feel insecure or upset block her

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Anonymous #6 21h

Are you okay?

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Anonymous #6 21h

I can’t even see that catastrophe. Had her blocked for some time now, apparently.

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Anonymous #24 21h

i am okay i blocked her a couple hours ago she said because i gave head to 1 boy and never have done anything else and it was older boy who took advantage of me she proceeds to say i'm not a virgin and that i probably have had sex with multiple partners i'm like girl why are you trying to tell me what i believe like most people don't consider giving head to be losing your virginity.

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Anonymous #20 21h

riiight someone above said they gave head and handjobs saying they still a virgin 🤦‍♀️ really hope thats not what you mean 🙄

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Anonymous #3 21h

girl can you PLEASE shut the fuck up. jesus fucking christ damn you are irritating

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Anonymous #21 21h

bc too many liars on here

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Anonymous gothgymrat 21h

am I wrong? they said theyre virgin and my point is what I said

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Anonymous #28 21h

That’s your opinion

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Anonymous #6 21h

Aweee girl I’m so so sorry. Hope you are okayyyy!

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Anonymous #8 21h

You’re much stronger than me bc I always feel used and disposed of when that happens. It’s part of the reason I became celibate, it was hurting my self image because I didn’t understand why men treated me that way

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Anonymous #31 19h

point is you HAVE had sex partners when ppl say virgin they usually mean 0 sex partners so as long as ur honest you had sex partners

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Anonymous #32 18h

well by virgin have you given or done oral? Bc if you had some kind of sex before then you had a sex partner

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Anonymous #3 18h

i haven’t had penetrative sex

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Anonymous #32 18h

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️omggg so ur one of those?? my question is if you had oral sex with any men before

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Anonymous #32 18h

if you had oral sex with guys then you HAD sex partners

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Anonymous #32 18h

YOU ARE ***NOT*** A VIRGIN so tired of reading shit like this

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Anonymous #3 18h

what’s wrong with you bitch

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Anonymous #3 18h

how about “it’s none of your fucking business what other people’s sex lives entail!” how about that one? :)

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Anonymous #32 18h

I said if you had sex partners and gave blowjobs or handjobs or anal sex you ARE NOTTT a virgin bc you have SEX partners

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Anonymous #32 18h

what’s hard to understand? if you have sex partners its not 0

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Anonymous #3 18h

omg you’re so obsessed with other people’s sex lives, you’ve been on yikyak all fucking day give it up it’s giving, and i absolutely HATE using this word in any other context, femcel🙌

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Anonymous #13 18h

🙄 if you gave MEN blowjobs then yes you had SEX and what bout you? same story? are you another who calls urself virgin and has oral sex handjobs and anal 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 18h

and not to mention u were real quiet at my point earlier about the cultural complexities of virginity as a social construct. you don’t have anything to back up your stance but hatred and ignorance.

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Anonymous #13 18h

MY stance is you have sex partners then its not 0, thats alll

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Anonymous #3 18h

still zero critical thinking okay you might just be hopeless

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Anonymous #3 18h

i’m not the one whining on yikyak ALL DAY. and you’re literally proving my point about prying into everyone’s sex lives for no reason. you’re obsessed, and you myopic world view is clearly a result of internalized misogyny and a lack of education.

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Anonymous #13 18h

idc you didnt answer DID you? do YOU call urself a virgin or not, thats what this is about dont say that if you had sex partners and yeah oral sex handjobs anal all count as sex

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Anonymous #3 18h

LMFAO all i can do is laugh atp 😭 i’m not feeding into your delusion by divulging my private information to you. that’s completely beside the point. i was trying to be objective but clearly all you care about is “BLOW JOBS ANAL SEX HAND JOBS OMG UR NOT A VIRGIN WAH WAH WAH” so stay mad and respectfully have a good night.

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Anonymous #13 18h

YEAH just what I thought dont come here pretending to be a virgin you had sex with MEN many times so dont come here pretending when ur sex partners are a loootttt more than 0 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #13 18h

OMG SHE GOT BANNED FUCK YES! (That or she just blocked me, although I hope it’s the former LOL)

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Anonymous #3 13h

why are you so miserable because you can’t get anyone to touch you lmao this reeks of jealousy

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Anonymous #14 12h

I think I just have a much more negative view of men. Like I start off by expecting them to do it so if it happens it’ll be a fundamental man issue, not a woman’s

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Anonymous #8 12h

Fair enough

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Anonymous #13 12h

she’s dumb af

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Anonymous #36 12h

No Biological Marker: There is no physical or scientific test that can prove whether someone has lost their virginity. The hymen is a flexible membrane that does not reliably indicate sexual history and can be altered by non-sexual activities like sports, tampons, or medical exams.

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Anonymous #36 12h

Historical and Patriarchal Roots: Historically, the concept originated to regulate paternity, control land ownership, and commodify women's bodies. A woman's perceived virginity was often tied to bride price, family honor, and the assurance of legitimate heirs.

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Anonymous #36 12h

Narrow Definitions: Traditional definitions heavily rely on heteronormative, penetrative penis-in-vagina sex. This narrow focus ignores LGBTQ+ relationships, non-penetrative sexual activities, and individual variations in sexual pleasure.

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Anonymous #36 12h

Double Standards: Societies frequently attach moral worth and shame to women's sexual histories while treating men's experiences with a different or permissive standard.

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Anonymous #36 12h

Organizations like Planned Parenthood emphasize that virginity lacks a medical definition, and alternative framing often shifts the focus from "purity-loss" events to personal boundaries, consent, and mutual health.

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Anonymous #36 12h

Preach

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Anonymous #3 12h

No one is lying; you're just on a high horse for being the mega virgin.

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Anonymous #3 11h

I never gave head during my high school hookups. The most I did was a hand job, and even that felt weird. I lost my virginity and had oral sex for the first time with the same man, and I'm still with him. So yes, I considered myself a virgin despite having kissed and touched another penis once.

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Anonymous #19 11h

Kissed a man not kissed a penis 😭💀😂

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Anonymous #6 11h

Oral sex and penetrative sex are two different things. Having oral sex doesn't mean you've lost your virginity. Virginity is personal, not something you get to define for someone else. She crazy, crazy maybe she needs to get laid.

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Anonymous #3 11h

Are you a virgin to my standards headass

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Anonymous #3 11h

Cute how you switched your argument to handjobs because the anal analogy wasn't working. You knew that was a stretch.

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Anonymous #3 11h

Yeah 0 people in this pussy bittch

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Anonymous #3 11h

We gotta lock your pussy up in the Warren Museum bc you're possessed.

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Anonymous #3 11h

Hope you die a virgin, you miserable bitch 🤣

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Anonymous #34 11h

LMAOOOO idek what happened… thisnis exactly why I made the post in the first place was to just ifk say it. #3s an asswipe 😭😭

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Anonymous #27 11h

LMAOOOO I know. #3 is getting her femcel ass BLOCKED.

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Anonymous #17 11h

Ofc girl. That’s what this post was meant to be 😭😭😭

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Anonymous OP 11h

Yall disgusting 🤢

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Anonymous #28 11h

Take the stick out of your ass

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Anonymous #28 11h

why

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Anonymous #29 11h

Cause men suck, are mean, don’t know how to do it, don’t respect women, aren’t clean…. Etc

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Anonymous OP 10h

it’s the bean soup and the virgin police for me 😂😂 I have zero patience I’d be in time out by now

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Anonymous #34 10h

Yall sum hoes

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Anonymous #19 10h

if ur here saying you have 0 sex partners then dont lie about it yes it counts if a man orgasmed in your mouth or you gave him handjobs

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Anonymous #28 10h

I’m a virgin so you’re going to have to insult me in another way lmfao

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Anonymous #36 10h

No YOU listen up yourself the words SEX and SEX PARTNER are real terms and if you say you had 0 sex partners or imply it then you LIED if you had oral sex or gave handjobs sorry

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Anonymous #36 10h

oh is that why you think 0 sex partners means oral sex and handjobs dont count sorry but yes the obv do count

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Anonymous #39 10h

🙄 are you counting oral/handjobs/anal bc so many here are having trouble understanding yeah if you did that stuff that counts as sex too

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Anonymous #3 10h

Virgin police got off ban 🤮🤮🤮

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Anonymous #19 10h

what? didnt even say virgin just saying oral is sex and doing sexual things counts

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Anonymous #3 10h

Having a sexual partner doesn't automatically mean you've lost your virginity.

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Anonymous #3 10h

Giving a handjob isn't losing your virginity by my definition. My boyfriend of five years, who I actually lost my virginity to, and I are laughing at you right now. 💀

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Anonymous #19 10h

True but I do agree that just because you are a virgin doesn’t mean you have 0 sex partners and you need to get tested and disclose and you orally have sex even if not penetration

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Anonymous #36 10h

Guys #3 shouldn’t have been in everyone’s business and they shouldn’t have harassed that girl for being pressured to be with an older man…… but you can be a virgin while having a sexual partner but you need to disclose and you’ve done sexual things (orally or handjobs) because that does matter.

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Anonymous #37 10h

I think you should be transparent about your sexual history and safe sex practices with potential partners. But STI status doesn't define someone's virginity or sexual history. Some infections can spread through nonsexual contact, so being informed and getting tested matters regardless.

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Anonymous #37 10h

I mean for medical reasons or getting tested

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Anonymous #19 10h

🙄 ok?? so how many guys did you give handjobs to while “a virgin” then my point is if yiu did that, you had sex partners/ sexual experiences

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Anonymous #40 10h

like who, the ones here saying they give handjobs bjs anal and dont count oral sex partners?? like just say if you have 0 sex partners and 0 sex experience instead of using that dumb word

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Anonymous #37 10h

Absolutely agree. My boyfriend of five years knows exactly who that person was. It wasn't a series of hookups; it was one on-and-off piece of shit I occasionally kissed. 💀 He also knows I never gave head or had penetrative sex before him. By my definition, I was still a scared virgin when we got together.

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Anonymous #37 10h

or just to be honest bc saying virgin if you had oral sex with many guys and gave lots of guys handjobs is misleading just say num of sex partners and sexual experiences instead 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 10h

You guys are both right there is no need to argue. Yes giving a handjob doenst mean you lost your virginity. But also if you did things orally or handjobs then yes you had sexual partners and experiences. PS …….(Having a sexual experience doesn’t automatically not make you a virgin. Almost every person and culture sees not being a virgin as penetration, yes some are convertible about other stuff but it isn’t the same)

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Anonymous #19 10h

I completely agree

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Anonymous #19 10h

my point is just that saying virgin is vague bc people have diff definitions so its super stupid just say how many sex partners and what sex experiences you had.. like with that guy if you gave him handjobs or did l sexual stuff then thats still sexual

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Anonymous #37 10h

Conservative* about other romantic stuff like kissing, touching, etc but it isn’t the same

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Anonymous #37 10h

🤦‍♀️ have you given guys handjobs and dont count that? like it is still a sexual experience tho

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Anonymous #3 10h

One 💀

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Anonymous #3 10h

I agree their are different definitions of virgin like what she did was still sexual but they barley did anything and that was years ago And at the same time in this situation, they are a virgin and they really didn’t do anything or have that many experiences so I feel like you really are pushing into something that doesn’t need to be pushed into especially for someone who is young and that’s such a hurtful situation

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Anonymous #19 10h

one before your bf.. sooo you had sexual experiences lol

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Anonymous #6 10h

me when i say something stupid

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Anonymous #3 10h

Because I gave a shrimpdick one handjob and occasionally kissed the same guy, but never did anything else, yes, I considered myself a virgin. 🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #19 10h

like yall are really coping if you think seeing a man penis (which ive never seen irl) and rubbing it doesnt count as sexual ofc its a sexual experience if you did it before ur bf

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Anonymous #3 10h

They do all that, but don’t go all the way so they could keep that “virgin” title. A lot of girls like to pretend they want to topple the patriarchy and that they’re feminists, but still hold value in things like this. So they’ll suck dick, have anal sex, and all without vaginal sex just to keep that title of purity

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Anonymous #19 10h

🤦‍♀️ well you had a sexual experience with another guy sooo yeah you had sexual experience

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Anonymous #19 10h

please just block her idk what’s she’s saying because i did but she can be extremely hurtful and rude nobody deserves to have a women tell her how she is she is just trying to play the purity Olympics because if you consider yourself a virgin and she considers herself a virgin, but she’s never done anything and you’ve done something. She wants to feel like she’s morally superior to you because she’s done nothing.

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Anonymous #3 10h

Sexual experiences? Sure. A learning experience? Absolutely. But it's not a cope. My man is still the only person who's ever seen my bits, and vice versa. 💀

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Anonymous #3 10h

Hey girl what if a random guy at a club that I was dancing with while I was wasted kinda rubbed my clit and then I never saw him again. Was that me losing my virginity?

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Anonymous #37 10h

no my point is a person who had 0 sex partners and 0 sexual experiences like me is different so I dont care for the word virgin since its so vague and ppl just use it without mentioning they were with other guys

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Anonymous #19 10h

lmfaoo i was gonna say that before i blocked her but honestly i couldn’t stand to talk to her any longer

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Anonymous #15 10h

how tf would he rub ur clit if ur wearing clothes lol you mean if you took off ur clothes? then you guys did something together I guess? but like with a handjob the man orgasms so if he rubbed ur clit and tried giving you an orgasm yeah thats counts to me

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Anonymous #19 10h

sure but id say you had sex experience with a guy before him 🤷‍♀️ idc about the word virgin, just asking for us to be more specific with our words

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Anonymous #6 10h

This is funny to me, not hurtful. Someone else’s standards don’t dictate my reality. And I did get her to backtrack from virginity to sexual experiences, so I’d say that’s a win. She’s the only one questioning my reality. 🤣 I’m no longer a virgin, but I remember how scared I was and how closely I guarded that part of myself because of Catholic guilt. I know my own experience, and I’m good over here. ❤️❤️

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Anonymous #3 9h

When I fell in love with my boyfriend, we took things very slowly because I was scared and guarded. I considered myself a virgin, and I know plenty of women with experiences similar to mine. Your comments don't get to dictate anyone else's reality. ❤

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Anonymous #19 9h

there is no backtrack my point from the very beginning is when ppl use virgin they are misleading or lying a lot of times bc ppl think ur innocent when lots of ppl who use it here had oral sex, handjobs, anal and they just act like virgin means they didnt do anything so my whole point is.. be completely honest! if you had a sex partner, say that and if you have sex experience say that

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Anonymous #19 9h

idc if you have a man a handjob before ur bf then you still had sexual experiences before him.. doesnt matter about guilt

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Anonymous #3 9h

It's not misleading when you're honest and transparent about your experiences. Communication matters more than policing someone else's definition of virginity.

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Anonymous #38 9h

🙄 idgaf about the word as much as I do when ppl use it to pretend they had no sex experience at all like if you had multiple sex partners plus sex experience just SAY that bc nothing special anout PIV sex, just say you had oral/handjobs/anal or other sexual experience

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Anonymous #3 9h

i’ve literally never done ANYTHING. i’ve made out like twice and left after 5 minutes. puhlease

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Anonymous #19 9h

uuuhhhh??? anal sex is even MORE onviously sex tf are you talking about ofc anal SEX counts as SEX what did you have anal before ur bf too??

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Anonymous #19 9h

my point is simple, dont use the word virgin and pretend you had no sex and no sexual experiences just be honest

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Anonymous #29 9h

😂 bc its high lol

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Anonymous #3 9h

But again there is a difference between being a virgin and having sexual experiences. But I do think it’s different if you’ve had no penetration but you have done it it orally or handjobs with more than 5 guys like not saying your not a virgin but people usally have one idea of virgins so they should say they’ve done stuff

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Anonymous #3 9h

girl can you please stfu i’m more of a fucking virgin than you and i’m not here slut shaming ppl and if you’re virgin for religious reasons than gods mf ashamed to call you his bc you hate ppl so DAMN much like judging ppl is JUST as bad. as having sex, bc all sins are equal. lock tf in.

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Anonymous #38 9h

oh im the same way, just saying so many here use the word bc they dont want to admit it like the worst are the ones who have anal sex a ton and say it doesnt count bc its not the vagina??? like tf is that oral sex also obv is sex and handjobs is a sexual experience

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Anonymous #38 9h

MORE of a virgin than me?? NOO ur not, and Im 22 turning 23 I never had a bf or ANYTHING at all between us I absolutely had less than you

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Anonymous #3 9h

worst ones? sorry i’m not judging other ppl for what they choose to do with their bodies, if they call themselves a virgin bc they given head, then they’re a fucking virgin. stop mf harrasing ppl, you’re not better than any of these ppl and frankly you’re embarrassing yourself acting like your better than everyone when in fact, we’re js not EXPERIENCED

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Anonymous #3 9h

Well we know you are a virgin cause you are acting like one….. please go outside and talk to people (doenst have to be sexually) but trying to ‘outcirgin’ someone and brag that you haven’t had anything at 23 isn’t good. It’s not bad to have not done anything but you seem very unhappy and being 22 on here arguing with people about this seems sad not like someone who is content or being celibate for themselves

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Anonymous #3 9h

i’m 25 babe, no bf, kiss count of 2 and it was when i was 15 and 17 only lasted 4 minutes and i walked away. bc i was like nah ts is not for me. leave ppl alone bc you’re not better than them #embarrassingyourself

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Anonymous #38 9h

what I mean is yeah if ur going to use that word to ACT LIKE you never had sex ur just lying if you were with multiple guys but had anal instead.. ur no diff than someone who had PIV sex literally no diff thats what I mean

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Anonymous #38 9h

This is my point, agree they are “more virgin” than you cause they want people to know they are one. They obviously aren’t content with themselves and they didn’t choose to be celibate that’s why they are replying yo everyone else. You seem like you don’t care that you aren’t in a relationship or anything, which is cool, you don’t have to be. Everyone should enjoy what they do and do it for themselves

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Anonymous #37 9h

i 100% agree i js kept reading this and i was like girl…. this is not a good look trying to embarrass fellow virgins, everyone should love themselves and do what THEY CHOOSE to do. i hate seeing other woman hate on other woman. disgusting.

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Anonymous #19 9h

yeah I said when ppl use it online 🤦‍♀️ acting like it means ur inexperienced is misleading yes but if ur open about sex partners and sexual experiences idgaf 🙄 but Im tired of ppl here who use that word even tho some of them have MORE sex/experience than ppl who DONT use the word, like just be HONEST

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Anonymous #3 9h

mind you virginity is a social construct. - a virgin

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Anonymous #40 9h

as a virgin yes i’m very proud of myself and have lots of self respect for myself it’s not easy to stay virgin but i know it’s best for my mind and body

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Anonymous #37 9h

hey how about if you dont have anything to disagree with what I wrote keep it to urself about my age? or donyoh like it if I bring up ur age when you were being sexual with others? my point is just be honest about sex partners and experiences instead of using that word to act pure when ur just having sex partners and experiences like everyone else

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Anonymous #38 9h

I know.. my point is I wish ppl just were more honest about sex partners/experiences instead of that word since SOME PPL makes it sound like PIV sex is the ONLY thing that counts.. which makes things rly confusing we’d be better off just being honest without that

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Anonymous #3 9h

it’s non of your fucking business what ppl do gang 😭😭 out here trying to be virgin police like sum bullllshit

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Anonymous #37 9h

omgg just BE HONEST is what I’m saying!! stop using the word virgin, just say sex partners/if you had sexual experience thats ALL

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Anonymous #3 9h

ur IQ is very very low

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Anonymous #3 9h

Hun, you need to calm down, this is not worth the effort.

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Anonymous #43 9h

stay awaaaay from MY bed and you dont understand a single thing I said my point is to be honest about sex partners/experiences with sex instead of using that word which is misleading tired of ppl using that word to hide the fact that they have more sex than ppl who dont even use that word, or to hide handjobs/oral/anal etc

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Anonymous #42 9h

Y’all got too much time

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Anonymous #3 9h

Next stop..your bed..I’m cumming..get ready

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Anonymous #43 9h

slut detected

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Anonymous #41 9h

Just say you get none

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Anonymous #38 9h

The idea that its best for your mind and body implies that not being a virgin is worse for the mind and body. Proving my point, yall have a purity-culture based view on sex and virginity. Thank you for being exhibit A

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Anonymous #40 9h

i mean i don’t know what would happen if i did but i don’t have a purity culture based😭 if you saw any of my other comments i said virginity is a social construct, i can do things for myself that don’t involve other ppl. i like be myself and i don’t like ppl touching me and sex grosses me out bc men gross me out

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Anonymous #3 8h

Girl virginity is a social construct who cares what people wanna define it as

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Anonymous #40 8h

how about if ppl dont want to get fucked or give blowjobs and handjobs and oral and anal, unlike you, they can? if you want to just make sure ur honest about what sex partners/ sexual experiences you had

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Anonymous #38 8h

I completely agree

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Anonymous #43 8h

🤮🤮 thank god I will never see you cum PERVERT

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Anonymous #3 8h

I have no problem with your age or what you decide you do relationship, sexuality, etc.... You can bring up my age or what I've done I just haven't said what I've done. You are being vocal and I have already agreed with you multiple times there is no need to argue. I think a lot of people agree with you but the way you are saying it is harsh and instead is kinda making everyone go against you which is obviously isn’t the goal. I agree people should be honest and people are I just think not

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Anonymous #37 8h

Not everyone uses labels so much like this so it seems intense for some other commenters and this is something you are obviously passionate about which is good to be passionate. But I Agee with your overall message and I hope you are happy in your life and do what you want for you.

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Anonymous #34 8h

you say “virgin”?? ok then lets see, any oral sex ,handjobs or anal sex? bc yeah if ur using that word “virgin” AS IF the only sex you care about is PIV then ur being misleading 🤷‍♀️ someone without sex partners/ experiences at all is a lot diff than someone saying “virgin” who has oral, anal, handjobs stuff like that

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Anonymous #37 8h

already said I dont use labels, what I dont appreciate is ppl who say “virgin” in order to hide that they have sex and sex experiences.. like just be HONEST about that and say you had sex partners /experiences like handjobs and no I dont even remember if ur one calling urself a virgin or not, idk bc theres too many numbered ppl here

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Anonymous #19 8h

oooh riiight, yeah not kissed a penis, just took it in ur hands and had his ejaculate shoot into ur palms from his orgasm but yeaah let’s not count that guy?

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Anonymous #19 8h

🤮🤮 you are seriously disgusting

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Anonymous #3 7h

So if you kissed a man by your standards, that’s a sexual experience, and you’re no longer a virgin.

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Anonymous #3 7h

What straight woman is out here having loads of anal sex before vaginal sex and then claiming to be a virgin, like what. You’re just making shit up

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Anonymous #19 7h

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ noo I said just be honest if you had sex partners or sexual experiences before idk if you want to count kissing, but Im just saying if someone ASKS about ur experiences you CANT just say “im a virgin” bc its super misleading if you had sex partners/sexual experiences before just being open about that is better

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Anonymous #15 7h

🙄 well I know some girls who told me anal sex doesnt count and one said she did basically everything except PIV so yeah Inthink thats weird, just be up front and honest

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Anonymous #3 7h

So by your logic, you're not a virgin either, since you've had sexual contact. Funny how your definition keeps changing depending on who you're arguing with.

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Anonymous #3 7h

Pretty misleading 😬

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Anonymous #3 7h

What’s weird about doing everything except piv 😭

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Anonymous #38 7h

Ppl can acknowledge virginity is a social construct and still be purity-culture minded. Again, you’re the perfect example. You acknowledge virginity is just a social construct but by your own words you take pride in it. And the fake “men gross me out” bullshit is tired, you’ll still date them and bird out. You take pride in your virginity bc you think it makes you better, but you’ll never say it out loud you’ll just mask it in pretty words like “self respect”

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Anonymous #3 7h

both times you’ve replied to me idk wtf you’re talking abt, i feel like you agree but are jst confused and think you have to argue or something idk

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Anonymous #40 7h

ur here insulting people who have zero sex experiences bc you think they think highly of themselves in fact you sound like you look down on ppl who had less sex than you bc ur self conscious 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #40 7h

what we agree with is virgin is a stupid word bc ppl who have sex will use it what I said is ppl who have no sex or any experiences at all are not the same and my point is just be honest about ur past experiences instead of hiding it using that word

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Anonymous #3 7h

I never made any claim like that, everything I’ve said has made complete sense but you struggle with abstract thinking u cant think past your own emotions and experiences so you feel attacked

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Anonymous #3 7h

yea i don’t disagree with that, I just went into detail on why ppl will have all sorts of sex but avoid PIV so they could still be seen as a “virgin” if you don’t see how that is because of purity culture then I genuinely don’t know what to tell you

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Anonymous #14 6h

retweet i regret losing it that way so so much. It leaves you attached and feel so used

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Anonymous #3 5h

He didn't ejaculate. I was grossed out 💀

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Anonymous #3 5h

No and still never had anal, so am I still a virgin?

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Anonymous #3 5h

That mouth is pretty disgusting for someone who's never sucked a dick 💀

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Anonymous #3 5h

By your metric you aren't a virgin 😳

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Anonymous #19 5h

uhhh what? Never did anything sexual, much less than you 😳😳 no oral/anal/handjobs or anything 😊

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Anonymous #3 5h

You've kissed men, so by your own metric, you aren't a virgin?

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Anonymous #19 4h

first of all NO I did not second .. kissing is not sexual. you KISS your mom and dad. bsfr handjob? OBVIOUSLY sexual, TOUCHING GENITALS sexual means you SEE and TOUCH private parts or they touch urs

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Anonymous #3 4h

I don’t. Women who aren’t virgins get ridiculed everyday. Even women who are. I’m a virgin and you cannot believe how many times I’ve been called a slut or whore😭. Both sides need representation.

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Anonymous #3 4h

ARE YOU STUPID????

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Anonymous #3 4h

You need help. Are u religious? Is this where this is common from?

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Anonymous #3 3h

Yes I agree like before I haven’t called myself anything. I don’t feel a need to announce my experience on a random platform nor do I want to bring more attention to myself.

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Anonymous #3 3h

Sex and handjobs or oral aren’t the same thing. Nor mean an individual isn’t a virgin if they’ve done so, I feel like your mixing up a lot of different things.

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Anonymous #6 3h

In no way is giving head equate to losing You’re virginity. She seems deep into purity culture which is an entirely different matter. PIV is the only way to truly “lose your virginity” & even then in my opinion it has to be CONSENSUAL. I’ve meet SA survivors that of course have been a victim to CSA and they won’t/ shouldn’t (imo) count that up as losing your virginity. I hope what she’s saying isn’t truly affecting someone’s view of themselves or others because it’s just not true & simply wrong

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Anonymous #3 3h

FALSE

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Anonymous #3 3h

You must not be a virgin then

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Anonymous #36 3h

PREACHHH

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Anonymous #28 3h

i agree with the second part but virginity is literally a social construct bro

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Anonymous gothgymrat 3h

Ok but another thing is…. People talk about screwing someone as much as u want but in my opinion we should value ourselves more and our body.

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Anonymous #28 3h

Murdering more than 1 person is already too much😪. Now on a serious note, I hate how people refer to sexual partners as just bodies. Realistically id say anything over 100, if your being safe, disease free, and consistently get checked I don’t think the number should matter. If anything I’d question if they were all decent people…in a sense of if you were getting down and dirty with a racist, a pdf, or woman beaters etc, THATS something that should be more talked about.

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Anonymous #46 3h

So u couldn’t find atleast 1 Person out of 100!!! Wth who raised u? So u would give your body to 100 men… ew the number should matter your vagina is gonna be the size of a hula hoop.

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Anonymous #28 3h

Why does women having sex mean lower value??? If anything I could say I value my sexual experience and fluidity to not shy away from it? Value is also subjective and different for everyone. And suspecting someone for “only wanting one thing” when men love to say “not all men” and believe in human decency and honesty is not the same thing as know they “only want one thing.”.

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Anonymous bluelolipop2467 3h

Pookie, I’m 22… I told myself I have until 25 or I’m becoming a menace

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Anonymous #46 3h

A men texted me before wanting me because I was a virgin he said he likes us fresh 🤮

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Anonymous #46 3h

It doesn’t lower your value. YOUU do because you cannot respect your vagina. Your mind set is very hoeish and woke

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Anonymous #28 3h

A lot of men can’t respect women 🙄

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Anonymous #39 3h

Terrifying….💀 I’ve gotten a few of those, it’s creepy and sick. Especially the ones who try to convince/ coerce you into thinking they “deserve it”…. Like “I’m not like them, you just haven’t met a real man to lose it too” LIKE I HAVENT HEARD IT 1,000 TIMES, they are exactly like them. 💀 it’s hard out here for a pimp fr

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Anonymous #39 3h

Ok but how do they get to us?….

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Anonymous #28 3h

And your mindset is linked to men and their obsession with touching kids and being a pdf ??? I’d rather be woke than an uneducated bigot.

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Anonymous #3 3h

If you are kissing someone sexually, like you said you kissed people (I'm guessing multiple, by the way you worded it), you aren't a virgin according to your own standards. 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #39 3h

I KNOW ITS INSANE

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Anonymous #40 3h

It’s not about purity, I’m pretty sure that’s the point. 💀💀

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