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How I feel getting catcalled everyday by ugly ass men
1040 upvotes, 29 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "How I feel getting catcalled everyday by ugly ass men"
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Anonymous 9w

Literally like im a whole ass masc lesbian bro why do they want me 😭😭

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Anonymous 9w

Bro my friend and I got barked at the other day by a bunch of kids playing basketball 🫩

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Anonymous 9w

like right message wrong messenger..

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Anonymous 9w

I just hold up my left hand show them the ring finger then flip them off 🫶

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Anonymous 9w

I have not left campus without this happening since I got here bro once you leave campus the men come for u

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Anonymous 9w

and they the ones that be having so much confidence too like bro pls🙄

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Anonymous 9w

gotten catcalled more times in my three weeks at uk than my entire life

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Anonymous 9w

I’m from India. I’ve spent my life training my senses to ignore people on the street. This is nothing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Nah they are definitely just fucking with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

They most definitely are not i promise. Im a bike commuter and sometimes theyll see me from the front and call me a slur but i know for a fact most of them mean it. Lowk weird thing of u to say tbh

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Anonymous 9w

holy insecurity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

masc lesbian 👀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Says u with the eye emojis on my comment about unwanted attention smh time and place

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

girl what?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I’m a girl that’s why I put that😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Why does that matter? Like im not that put off by it and i would be flattered otherwise but given the context its kinda off. Cuz like women catcall me too i just specified men cuz it was more baffling given my presentation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

All I did was put “masc lesbian👀” what about that is catcalling dawg. Mad for absolutely no reason 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

you said u are a masc lesbian that’s why I put that because I like masc lesbians holy shit the world does NOT revolve around you🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

and also stop downvoting petty ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Wait why r u weird and gross

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Girl that isnt me.. also yeah i know thats cool you like mascs but thats not quite an appropriate place to make that comment when im talking about how i hate being leered at. Its not the substance that felt weird it was the context

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Literally my reaction when I read that

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Anonymous 9w

Did you read where i said SOMETIMES? And it can be both catcalling and hate crime, its fucking crazy yall telling me what is and isnt possible about a lived experience ive been dealing with for an actual decade now. Plus genuinely what is the difference why do yall want to distinguish it so bad. Its almost the same form of misogynist violence

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Anonymous 9w

Dawg ur the one insisting im a victim of bullying or whatever. Whats ur damage?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

it’s just two words with an eye emoji bro😭…if I said “oh you’re a masc lesbian, slide up in my DMs mommy🫦” that would be cat calling.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

And that would genuinely be a weird thing to say…

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

she’s flaming me in the comments accusing me of cat calling her when all I put was 2 words and an emoji like dawg what😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Never said you were catcalling me. Sorry my initial comment was offensive/snarky but my point, which you keep ignoring, is that it felt like an inappropriate comment given the context of the convo. But atp youre taking it so oddly far.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Yes ik like i keep saying on its face theres nothing wrong with that statement. But i didnt appreciate it given what i was talking about.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Maybe because you came at me? Also what’s inappropriate abt it when all i put was two words with an eye emoji like dude you’re reaching too far😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Cuz i was literally talking ab disliking being ogled by people and what you took out of it was to just take interest in me being masc. ordinarily thats fine but it felt ironic given your first comment and lowkey (yes, lowkey) objectifying because of what i was talking about

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