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Happy Father’s Day to the girls who succeeded without a father and had to be our own fathers we did that shit
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Anonymous 20w

And the girls with the half present fathers, we mostly did it without him!!

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Anonymous 20w

also to the girls who lost their fathers too young.

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Anonymous 20w

Always a tough day for me, thank you for this🫶🏼

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Anonymous 20w

And the girls with the physically present but emotionally absent fathers

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Anonymous 20w

The girls with estranged fathers, always a super emotional day for me

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Anonymous 20w

seeing this right after i was getting starting to get upset at everyone posting their fathers 🥹

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Anonymous 20w

to the girls who don’t know who their fathers even are

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Anonymous 20w

this just reminded me that family court asked me “do you even know the purpose of having a father figure” gang that man was not and will never be a father figure

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Anonymous 20w

happy father’s day to my mom who had to be both 🫶🏼💐

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Anonymous 20w

To the girlys whose fathers passed away before they could see them succeed🩷 I see you, we see each other🫶

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Anonymous 20w

It’s my dads birthday today too 🤠

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Anonymous 20w

And those girls with abuse fathers

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Anonymous 20w

Wrote this for all the heavens father and happy fathers days to all girls who does see their father’s presence even if they have them . The lord is with u and u come so far to this alone you are more then able to shine bright like a star without the father ❤️

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Anonymous 20w

Made it far without him ♥️ he barely came back into my last year and as much as I love him.. I did it all on my own 🫶🏽 proud of everyone who made it this far even when a father figure wasn’t present

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Anonymous 20w

ily

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Anonymous 20w

ty queen

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Anonymous 20w

omg yesss girl

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Anonymous 20w

Amen to that

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Anonymous 20w

even in two parent households men act like because they work all day they don’t have to interact with their children bc that’s a “woman’s job”

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Anonymous 20w

I don’t celebrate it bc my dad was abusive but happy father day to us 😻

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Anonymous 20w

We are here and proud heck yay,he was half present a little bit in my life for a while when I was little,then it grew distant.No thank you.

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Anonymous 20w

Felt!

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Anonymous 20w

AMEN TO THAT

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Anonymous 20w

🥰

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Anonymous 20w

🫶🏼🫶🏼

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Anonymous 20w

Ilyyyyy🫶

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Anonymous 20w

heavy on this !!!

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Anonymous 20w

Anyone who lost they father and the fathers side act sooo stranger ? Or it just me am talking about aunties who wear a lot of masks out there !!!

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Anonymous 20w

This was actually me on Mother’s Day- my mom has struggled with drug addiction and somewhere along the way she decided to have another family.

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Anonymous 20w

thank you.

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Anonymous 20w

thanks baddie

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Anonymous 20w

YUUUUUUPPPPPPPPPPCLOCKIT

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Anonymous 20w

This post is so weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 20w

Frrr ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 20w

I specifically ignore social media today and the next day so I don’t catch any strays

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 20w

You’re not alone hun ❤️. I was just in the moment to remember my dad who died eight years ago, Monday was tough day and today’s father’s It’s so heartbreaking to see other people are posting their dads. Just miss my dad‘s presence.

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 20w

That sooo me

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 20w

Take heart ma’am❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 20w

And yet we’re still out here kicking ass. You’re not alone, and he’s the one missing out at the end of the day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 20w

you’re so strong 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 20w

Happy birthday to him

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 20w

They ar not alone praying for them every day so they can find peace of mind ❤️ in everything they do life will not be the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 20w

Me too. Thank you for this🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 20w

this!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> light_pink_spider 20w

Hold you knowing we ar in this together you are strong ❤️❤️❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 20w

Sending love 💕 don’t give up . God is on your side

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

now how tf

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

You’re weird for thinking it’s weird tf

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 20w

Lost mine 6 years ago on the 25th and Father’s Day was my last time seeing him. This comment and post actually just made me not feel so alone 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 20w

It’s insanely self absorbed. Imagine making a comment like this in regard to any other holiday. This is cut from the same cloth as saying “all lives matter” to a Black Lives Matter protestor

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Anonymous replying to -> #37 20w

But for all of y’all out there, cherish the parent or the person who stuck it out, and stayed. You guys are amazing despite what happened to you, but you’re also amazing because of the people who showed up for you

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Anonymous 20w

If sexuality was a choice we would be

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

it’s really not and people say this for many holidays… father’s day is tough and depressing when you don’t have a real father in your life. so posts like this are expressing sympathy for those people. same is said on mother’s day for those without mothers, valentines day for those without a significant other, etc etc….

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 20w

Valentine’s Day yes but mother day no. This is supposed to celebrate fatherhood/motherhood. If u had a bad relationship with ur parents then im sorry but making this about urself when it’s meant to honor someone else is just weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

please explain how expressing sympathy because the day can be hard for some people is making the holiday about them. no one is saying not to celebrate fathers and to only focus on the victims. both can happen at the same time without taking away from each other. like i am genuinely confused here lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 20w

Cuz that is taking away from it. We’ve created a day to celebrate fatherhood and you’ve used that to bring up bad fathers. Like yes bad parents exist and I feel bad for everyone who has them but to bring that up while the intent is to celebrate good parents just feels childish

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Anonymous replying to -> #40 20w

That’s honestly why I would point back to the “all lives matter” vs “black lives matter” example from earlier. Like yes obviously all lives matter and that statement doesn’t take away from the fact that Black Lives Matter but right now we are coming together to bring awareness for black lives and saying “all lives matter” is just to take away from that

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

Are you the same person that kept saying “delusional” in that other Father’s Day post? If so, it’s actually really sad that this is what you’re spending your day doing. It’s also a little funny. Find a new bit lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 20w

Nah that’s not me, I have no idea what the other fathers day post is lol. This isn’t supposed to be a bit, it’s just weird to bring up bad fathers on a day about celebrating fathers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

No where near the same💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #32 20w

i dont think ive ever seen a take as bad as this on this app💀 there is nothing wrong with acknowledging this holiday can be hard for some people. literally nothing. that is an objective truth not something up for debate. we can celebrate good parents and also support those who dont have them. your comments scream ignorance and low emotional intelligence. also you are most certainly a man so respectfully please get the fuck out of this community

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Anonymous replying to -> light_pink_spider 19w

We got it rough

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