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I no longer have the emotional bandwidth to help other women who constantly choose to shitty guys romantically or sexually. I’m at a point where they’re just going to have to figure out on their own far away from me
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Anonymous 1d

My friend has sex with every single guy she hangs out with (including exes) and then texts me after so upset about it and I’m like I really can’t help you idk why you feel the need to do that

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Anonymous 1d

I can’t listen to the same story of you dating men who are racist and weird and then continuing to have sex with them or let them into your space. That’s a lack of self respect to me

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Anonymous 1d

No actually at some point they have to stand up on their own.

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Anonymous 1d

YUP even as friends bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I have slowly started ghosting friends who do this and I feel zero guilt not gonna a relationship that’s not mine stress me out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Esp like racism sexism bc like… no matter what u say the company u keep speaks wonders

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yes bc why are you okay with a man being racist? Or putting down women of other ethnicities and not calling him out or distancing yourself?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Mine friend is going this right now and I’m just like you’re so smart, you have so many things going for you, why are you letting a man who has nothing even look in your direction 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

How do you deal with it?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I used to tell her to set boundaries but she still ends up letting them in her home and sleeping with them then regretting it. So I just told her girl idk what’s wrong with you and I can’t help you out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Honestly like all I can do is give advice but if ur not taking it that’s on u

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