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Girl Talk 38w
I have recently changed my mind about wanting kids but my boyfriend of three years is adamant about having at least three of them, yall think it’s over for us?
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Anonymous 38w

I’m in a really similar spot with my bf. I told him pretty early on that I didn’t want kids and he said that he “just always assumed he’d have kids” but that he was fine with that and now I’m just concerned that he actually wants kids and will resent me

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Anonymous 38w

I have no idea when to bring this up to my bf bc i never want kids and i have no idea how he feels about them…

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 38w

I just had to rip the bandaid off and do it randomly

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

how long into the relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 38w

It was like a year but I should’ve done it much sooner tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

Like now I’m in the boat that before two people commit to a relationship like bf/gf, gf/gf, bf/bf etc. they should be making sure they’re on the same page with that. But that’s hindsight lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 38w

i date to marry and he knows that so i probably could just ask him. But also in my mind its like, we’re way too young to even consider kids and to even know if this relationship will last until id be ready to think about kids

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