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I have a habit of assuming people don’t like me if they don’t text me back for a few days or walk w me after class. Any tips for switch to being self aware vs self conscious
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Anonymous 4w

Most people are busy or overwhelmed with their schedule or even enjoy alone time. That has nothing to do with you. You’re placing yourself in scenarios you don’t need to be placed in. Unless they give you a clear reason or signal as to why they don’t like you then you’re good! A lot of the times the people you meet in class aren’t going to be your best friends and that’s okay too! Just learn to be okay with you and work on the ability to realize you’re not doing anything wrong by just being

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Anonymous 4w

there and present. Like you’re good! And even if they don’t like you, that reflects on them and maybe you don’t mesh. It doesn’t devalue you in any way

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Anonymous 4w

Guys please give me reassurance

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you queen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Of course!! Does that make sense to you though?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yes!

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