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*woman shares negative experience about dating a man* a man: well you just need to stop dating assholes! *stops dating men* the man: no not like that
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Anonymous 12w

Me, a bisexual lady, choosing to become a functional lesbian. A man will treat you like crap, a woman will crack and then cook for you.

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Anonymous 12w

I’m a bisexual who likes women more…only been talking to guys because of family and i genuinely hate it. I WANT to date a woman bro😩

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Anonymous 12w

Perfectly logical conclusion to not date men if you don’t like dating men. Any man opposed to that prob wanted you.

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Anonymous 12w

We genuinely don’t care bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

real, i’ve given up on men since the probability of me finding a good man is like 1/10th of the probability of me finding a good woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Exactly, I know for a fact a woman would treat me a lot better than a man and that speaks volumes 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

so date women…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

that’s what I said🤨

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Anonymous 12w

because of family…did you even read what I said?

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Anonymous 12w

Because of family…I only talk to guys because of my family dude🧍🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

fair enough i’m gonna downvote myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Iv been thinking about doing this ngl…. but there’s the occasional benevolent twink and/or bi guy, though…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

even if they all end up being eggs

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

This is weird. You can’t be a functional lesbian it’s a whole separate identity. You’re just a bisexual who chooses to only date women. Stop co-opting our identity and using it as an action

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Wait this is an identity? Can you explain that further? I didn’t mean to offend you or anyone else I thought it was just a term one of my friends came up with to describe my dating history since I haven’t dated a man in years. I didn’t mean to co-opt any identity, I just didn’t know that this was an actual thing. Sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Following up here, I’d really appreciate if you could inform me on what functional lesbian is. I was only able to find info that supports the definition I gave (being a bi woman who only dates/is with woman). I’m genuinely curious about the differences between my identity and yours.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

That’s okay! Sorry if I came off too hot. It’s just that being a lesbian is an identity and isn’t just described by liking and dating women. You can’t be a functional lesbian because it’s an identity not a dating pattern

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

then don’t comment “bro” … who’s we btw? you and the other men who aren’t supposed to be here? why don’t you mute girl talk if you really don’t care 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Sure so would you mind explaining to me what a functional lesbian is? What’s the necessity for the term functional if you’re simply a lesbian? I hope I’m not coming across as ignorant I just don’t quite understand

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