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My boyfriend gets really upset when i say i don’t want to share a bed with him when we live together :/ he snores really loudly and basically says i need to deal with it. he also throws up sometimes and in the bed and i have a fear of vomit :((
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Anonymous 3w

Snoring was valid enough but as someone who’s also emetophobic absolutely not 😭

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Anonymous 3w

my mom got a sleeping wedge and hasn't snored since

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Anonymous 3w

I’m so sorry but like what if my partner’s sick and we HAVE to share a bed…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

ikr. he genuinely doesn’t understand. im a very light sleeper and he’s a heavy sleeper. im going to not budge on this but he just gets upset about it and idk why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

My parents don’t sleep together like half the year and they’re perfectly fine, my mom and dad both snore sometimes. My partner and I have also slept separately when it’s too hot or one of us can’t sleep for whatever other reason. He might just think it means you don’t like him but obviously that’s not the case

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Ofc not yeah and i made sure i let him know of that. He says that our future kids might think it’s weird (we both want to have kids in the future) and im just like idk man we’ll figure it out. I like my own bed :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You two can worry about what the kids might think when the kids are actually existing, not a hypothetical. Honestly it sounds like he just needs a sleep aid for the snoring and to go to the doctor for the vomiting because that sounds concerning.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

My parents didn’t sleep together for the “same reasons”. A divorce is coming their way💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

(I mean that @ you, my parents got divorced eons ago lmao)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

no fr. I’ll gladly take care of him. just not in my personal space. we grew up very differently (im an only child he’s not) and he doesn’t really understand and can’t wrap his head around it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I feel like if my gf wanted something I’d completely either compromise on my wants for her needs, or find some in between (beds you can push together or separate personal spaces along with group bedroom) but like clearly ur not getting mad abt some lame trivial thing- idk he just seems kinda immature and like- has he lived with another person b4

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

He’s lived with his ex before but other than that only his sister

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I promise they’re not lol, I actually wanted it to happen for a while. They’re both happily retired now and traveling together, and I’ve been out of the house for like 5 years. I feel like they would’ve made a move atp

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