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Why is it impossible for people to believe a woman doesn’t want a child? Every time my siblings bring up our kids growing up together I say “leave me out of that” and they all respond “you say that now.” Bitch NO I’ve said it since I was 8
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Anonymous 1d

The bullshit response of “oh you’re 19 you’re still young.” Bitch I still own a conscious mind and functioning neurons I don’t want kids I don’t like them

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Anonymous 1d

I have so many friends/family who say the “you say that now but you’re still young you may change your mind” and it irks me so bad because I’ve known forever that I don’t want them and not everyone has to have them

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Anonymous 1d

I have wanted to be a mother since I was a child so personally I can't imagine that for myself but I HATE when people say "you say that now" or "we'll see when you get older" like it's sooo condescending and even if you were to change ur mind who cares bro. If you say you don't want kids then people should respect that. God I'm angry on your behalf this shit pisses me off. I hope you live a joyful and childless life lol

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Anonymous 1d

My mom is the only one who believes me. My siblings are the same way as yours

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Anonymous 1d

a fun way to troll them is to talk about having future non-human children as if they were human children 😌

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

See I love kids. But I love other peoples kids that I am not responsible for at the end of the day. It’s valid either way. Not wanting kids because you don’t like them or even if you do like them. It’s a huge decision and it should not be assumed that we want to be mothers just because we have the right parts.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Agreed. As someone who used to work at a daycare and is studying psychology most people don’t need to have kids. There is a certain way you are supposed to raise kids so they have the tools they need for when they’re older. The lack of accountability and parenting now in days (or just in general) is disappointing. I once had a little girl break my evil eye necklace and when I spoke to her mother about her behavior and why she did it, she had the audacity to laugh as if it was a cute lil anecdote

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Don't even get me started on parenting now adays that also gets me going on a tangent

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Oh girl me too 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

yeah, i will grow some trees to feed my kids and use their used substrate as compost. and yeah, it's so cool watching all of their legs move in sync. my kids will be so cute (:

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