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i need advice… i’m dating this guy and he’s awesome super sweet kind and thoughtful everything i want but he doesn’t want kids and i do i just don’t know what to do
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Anonymous 2w

You break up. You want different things and one of you is going to be making a major sacrifice. Wanting/not wanting kids is a major life choice and it’s not fair for someone to have to give up what they want in that aspect for their partner. There’s some things where compromises work but I’m sorry this just isn’t one of those

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Anonymous 2w

I would break up unfortunately. When it comes to desire for kids it’s usually very unlikely that either person will change their mind and believe me, you don’t want to force someone into having them anyways

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