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I was wondering if anyone had any support or advice for breakups. I’m on month seven and was okay for a little, but it hit me hard again. We were each others first love/relationship. I’m struggling so hard. He broke up with me while we were both crying.😕
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Anonymous 19w

It’s hard. You are going to hurt. The only advice that I can give that I think will help is surround yourself with people who love you. Make yourself feel love from yourself and from those important to you. Validation, acceptance, and love can come from people who are not in a romantic relationship with you and sometimes that matters more. You are loved. You are important. You will get through this. I’ve been in your shoes. It hurts. But you will be okay. I promise you that.

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Anonymous 19w

it’s definitely hard, but the best thing i did was find love and comfort from my friends. whenever my coworkers would invite me out, id go, or if my friends would want to go shopping i’d do it, even if i didnt want to. also be open with yours friends and reach out if you need to

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Anonymous 19w

And anything helps please I really need to hear some love or words of wisdom. It’s hurting like no other. -person above

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